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Posted Wednesday, September 21, 2022
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1) if they wanted to, they would 2) actions always speak louder than words 3) no response is a response 4) not everyone will have the same values in life as you do ❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Colin
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Taurus
1) This is not remotely true. Someone can want to do something and choose not to do it for a variety of reasons. You play a major part in how the people in your life can actualize their desires. 2) sometimes words can speak louder than actions. Spoken language is a very powerful tool and is critical for having a healthy relationship, it should not be discounted. Actions can be just as manipulative if not more manipulative than words! 3) silence is often utilized in a toxic way to punish others. Not responding can be valid in certain situations, but it's almost never good in the context of a relationship. 4) well duh. And that's why it's really important to figure out what your values are and to communicate about them when connecting with someone, assuming you're looking for something long term. A difference in values is one of the main reasons why long term relationships fail! It's super duper important.
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Sequoia
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ISFP
Pisces
"if they wanted to, they would" is a weird one to me, it sets this expectation that everyone always acts on their desires and is my understanding that we put people like that in prison
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Ian
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Capricorn
Agreed.
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Penny
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