My lipstick still mark on your coffee cup 🥴

A good man is better than a rich one

It’s normal to value money because it helps us build a comfortable and stable life. But if you have only 2 options what do you choose ? Rich or happiness? Yes you can have both of them in one man but what if you have to choose one quality/feature? I would go with a good loving man rather than... read more

Haha men 🤣

How common is this?

Usually when I find someone I'm interested in, I would message first by asking them something. And if someone sends a like or a request it would start the conversation BUT is it really a conversation though? Most of the men I talk to genuinely don't know how to ask questions back LIKE SIR this is a... read more

Poll for Men

Based on yourself (man) only, would you prefer to have casual relationships or would you still want a long term one? Put aside what a woman wants when answering. Feel free to provide commentary. (edited)

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I hurt my own feelings

Someone explain please?

So like a weight in or explain what happened. How did we go from a courting/dating to casual/open relationships? The lost of commitment and getting to know a person for an end goal is truly sad. Is it due to the lack of trust we have or moving on is easier then working on issues. Abuse and... read more

Where are you my husband

I need a financially stable husband Who loves snd take care of his woman bring me flowers 💐 take me on dates. Someone who makes me smile 😃 everytime I see him

“Effort and Responsibility in Relationships”

Dating a man who cannot help you financially and has no intention of ever stepping up can become a waste of time. Many men want the benefits of being with a good woman without accepting the responsibilities that come with it. A man doesn’t have to pay every bill the moment he meets a woman. But... read more

An explicit call for self-respect and dignity

Do not chase after someone who has done without you, for you are richer than them. Do not blame someone who has neglected you, for your life is more beautiful without them. Give your soul peace, for those who want you will not abandon you. Do not say that you cannot live without a certain... read more

Check & Checkmate

Jealousy...

Does it consume you too much? Or you can handle it well? I get jealous since I'm the jealous type in a relationship but...I control it and handle it. 😌 I mean..I can't just say I'm jealous and be mean, right? 😆🤭

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I think we all have that red flag tendency about ourselves. How red is your flag 🤷🏽‍♂️

How does this work?

When I was a street guy. I had girls all over me. Now that I'm healthy, paying taxes, I have my life together, a good job, I'm clean and sober.. I've had multiple girls say "it's intimidating to date me. Because I don't need them." HOW DOES THAT MAKE SENSE.. it's sooooo funny. I'm ready to be a... read more

The one

We don’t want perfect; we want honest, present, and willing to grow with us.

How do I Win

Been in this kinda situation before, manipulation at its best! Toxicity!

Learn to listen

This one especially goes to the gentlemen. Learn to listen to what the other person saying, not to respond, but to genuine understand them. I see so many men on here that seem to lack even the most basic ability to listen. A good example, if a woman says, "I'd like to find some ladies to be... read more

tell me why

Why is flirting with men easy but flirting with women feels like I’m presenting a thesis.

Ego

Another relationship killer!!! Why is acknowledging accountability so hard in a relationship? If anything I think that's the most intimate and vulnerable part/aspect of a relationship. . Just me 🤷🏽‍♂️

Seeking advice : people say that people like to talk about themselves, but I often find the opposite is more true for the people I meet where they like listening. What does someone talking about themselves entail to you, and what do you think makes people talk about themselves.

Wisdom

You have to be willing to fight for that kinda love. You have to be willing to compromise and willing to be genuine and transparent. That kind of love is moulder through time and understanding

Loneliness and awkwardness

Idk why i suffer with mood swing twice a month....... I start feeling very lonely, i am smart and and earning well, i have hobbies like i play guitar etc, but why do i feel self doubt sometime, why do i feel lonely?? Is it with me only or anyone else in my team?

Snitches

If you're motto is honesty, deserves punishment ---- you're the problem

5 star pick up line!

Uses this line honestly it will work. ( sorry I been so distant lately, I had to work on my self to earn you!) Pow let it and see her reaction! With this,im out! Peace to the men and not but love to the women!

Disrespect

Never tolerate disrespect If She still connected with ex Walk Away If She won’t submit to you Walk Away If She entertaining other men Walk Away If She listens to her girlfriends over you Walk Away If She have Male friends Walk Away This is not about being insecure This set a Boundaries and... read more

Better to be Single

It is better to be single Than having a Woman that Can’t give you Peace of Mind You don’t want a Liability You need an Asset

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Finding the right someone.

Anyone actually real? Why does it seem so difficult to find someone to talk to about my passions?

Exactly 🤣

Best advice I can give.

Love yourself. I know it sounds difficult, but that's the first step. Change what you feel like changing, but in the end love yourself. Don't look at that breakup like a terrible thing. Grow from it and use it to become more.

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No hate, no fight—just one last rhyme before goodbye: we had our time, but not our forever, so I’m letting go this time.

Wat up everyone still single and looking

Still looming

Avoidance is necessary, okay!?

Sometimes the English on these socials is Higher Grade. . Exhibit A ⬇️

Yup ☺️

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Thought of the day 🤔

Psychology says people often stay in relationships not because they are happy, but because they are emotionally attached or afraid to start over. Sometimes love feels real… but it may actually be habit, comfort, or fear of loneliness. 💬 Honest question: How do you know the difference between... read more

Talks~

Craving for some connection, hmu if you want to talk about anything👌🏼💯

Question of the day

What questions are you most afraid of being asked?

Walked away for my peace— devistating… and now what? 🤷🏻‍♂️ (edited)

Notifications.....

I absolutely hate getting app notifications from my multiple dating apps about random stuff, keep thinking I've finally got a match 🤣