Posted Wednesday, May 6, 2026
6d
INTJ
Leo
For example if a man didn't have a job but somehow had his own place (maybe he's being provided for by someone else l) how likely would someone like that be able to get in a relationship? Another example if a man has a job,does not have his own place and doesn't even have a car how likely is someone like that able to get in a relationship? Basically can men get into relationships without having a direct benefit that women can use to justify their attraction?
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Fab
6d
INTJ
Gemini
As a man, I think it depends on where you put your value. Some men think that they can't think about having a relationship without having a job and an apartment, and some other men would be okay with having a relationship even though they don't have a job or an apartment. I personally think that women value ambition and purpose, so, if I was in a complicated situation, I think I would have avoided to start a new relationship...
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𝕵ennie
6d
ENFP
Sagittarius
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5Good question :) And yes, but the more self sufficient, 'functional' a man are to take care of yourself careerwise and financially, the better it is long run. It signals stability in that you are well resourced to take care of material wellbeing if you were to start a family for instance. But a relationship's health is dependent other more important things though, there are alot of other ways you can 'provide'. There's an exception though; I've dated a jobless guy before, and it didn't last for a reason, and that it was because of immaturity and stagnation, the other person may suffer because of it too 🫠
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Léna
6d
ENFP
Libra
67
7Obviously yes because attraction isn't just about material provisions for a lot of women. However it might create a block in the relationship if he is stagnant and not doing anything in life while she is as it creates a mismatch. I've date jobless men before who don't have a car and in fact I'm turned off by men who have too many material possessions or wealth or a brand new car because it indicates to me that we are not compatible in our values. A man can provide care, an ear, love and affection. Maybe he doesn't have a job because he volunteers or is a political activist. However if he is struggling in life without making any effort to get better, sponging off others and not striving for something in life - this is a turn off. There are plenty of women out there who like a submissive man and don't mind him not providing her material things. There's many ways to answer this because the question is very broad 🤣
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Jorge Luis
5d
INFJ
Virgo
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5Siempre tenemos algo que dar, hay gente que no busca algo material pero si apoyo incondicional, compañía, el asunto siempre está en como te muestras, la confianza en ti es importante para empezar a dar algo. Y hay algo importante, a pesar de las dificultades el mero hecho de existir ya es algo de valor. Tu vida, tu tiempo, tus experiencias y tus valores valen.
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