Have you ever been single for so long and then you feel like it's ok for being single or live without a partner?

Question

Do you think it is ok for thinking  like that?

Rob · Accepted Answer

All of my healthiest and happiest relationships started during times in my life where I wasn't looking for love and I was OK with being single.

𔓎𝔈𝔯𝔦𝔨𝔞𔓎 · Answer

Yes. I've also felt like that when I wasn't single.

And it's perfectly fine to think that way.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with how you want to live your life, Layla.

Be that beautiful soul, you're meant to be.

𝔞u҉𝔱o҉𝔫o҉𝔪o҉𝔲s҉ · Answer

Only we can complete ourselves.

Love should be when you find someone that compliments your completeness, just as you compliment theirs.

Feeling comfortable single is healthy, and you need that comfort to understand if the next person you meet compliments you, or takes away from you.

Abdou · Answer

I can't even remember for how long I've been single I guess I lost my love feelings xD 🤣

Kevin · Answer

Sometimes. Other times I wonder what it be like to be in love and in a relationship. Then the fears of messing it up or not being good enough come in when it’s trying to engage for like the first date. For some reason though I seem to wait for the girl to ask me. Idk why. My guess is I got picked on a lot when I was younger by boys and girls and I guess I don’t want to engage for fear that I might appear like a creepy man. I had one comment on a different app years back that said I looked like a pedophile.

Jason · Answer

Ok im going to be honest here I've single my whole life and 27 now I just haven't found my soulmate yet when I was in high school I didn't really worry about it because I my friends but now I'm out in the world and lost touch with them single hurts because I have Noone to talk but I will forever have hope being single so I found myself and excepted myself love myself learn most of fears aren't fears now I only have one fear and that is never finding my soulmate but I will never let fear win you think the way u think just keep hope everything will come your way do time life works in mystery ways

Nik · Answer

Living alone help me to understand what I really want and don't want from my potential partner. Much more than I was in relationship. If you okay with yourself - you will be much more attractive to other people rather than chasing their love or approval

Angela · Answer

It’s absolutely healthy to be okay by yourself! Being independent and not needing love, yet wanting it, is the ideal, because that is the point where healthy and stable relationships begin. Good luck! ❤️

✨✨✨ · Answer

Sure :) Me, myself and I until someone amazing comes along and changes your life. Till then, you do life solo 😊✌️

Will · Answer

I started to feel that way. This year was a promise I made to myself, which was to put myself out there no matter what happens. To say I gave it a good shot considering where I currently am right now.

Ehssan · Answer

Yeah it's quite ok thinking like that... But being like that is quite the opposite, principally.

Raja · Answer

That's just true

Federico Barragan · Answer

Yes

Del · Answer

I've been single for over 7 years straight at some point in my life and I was perfectly ok with it until I thought about the future I want.

This is a very personal topic, but what made me change my mind about wanting to be alone is "if you want kids you don't necessarily need a partner, if you want a family you do".

In the end you'll feel your body ask you to change things in your life, a lot of people don't ever feel like they want a partner and that's ok if they feel that way, same the other way around.

Bibin · Answer

When you have a bad past you tend to think like this

Vibhu · Answer

From experience point of view ..I would say thought process and way of things change with time...it's just a phase where you will end up thinking what you have asked about..then there will be days you will have sudden realisation we do need someone in life :)

Joe · Answer

Yes I did and it was a big mistake....i rectified that mistake...

Someone · Answer

I felt that for 21 years 😂

Tomei · Answer

Beats being hurt by others.

Faizan · Answer

It's Not About Single It's All About Be With Right Person.

Rav · Answer

Yess i am single but its very difficult  because in relationship we can talk, share our bad good all with our partner

Ahmed · Answer

That's finding peace by yourself

Andrew · Answer

Ya, there's nothing wrong with that. There's a difference between being alone and being lonely. Solitude is a great place to find happiness when it's approach well.

Ray · Answer

Totally

THE ADDY 11:11 · Answer

Depends on age

Jones aka TC · Answer

I'm on year 3 and I'm in a non official thing I've waited 20 years for which could be more. Either way, they are in my life. The key is ALWAYS to let things be and make yourself available on all the levels you can handle.

Darshan · Answer

Oh yeah, I've been single for 21 years and dunno how it feels like even having a partner

Have you ever been single for so long and then you feel like it's ok for being single or live without a partner?

Relationshipadvice Community

All of my healthiest and happiest relationships started during times in my life where I wasn't looking for love and I was OK with being single.

Yes. I've also felt like that when I wasn't single. And it's perfectly fine to think that way. There's absolutely nothing wrong with how you want to live your life, Layla. Be that beautiful soul, you're meant to be.

Only we can complete ourselves. Love should be when you find someone that compliments your completeness, just as you compliment theirs. Feeling comfortable single is healthy, and you need that comfort to understand if the next person you meet compliments you, or takes away from you.

I can't even remember for how long I've been single I guess I lost my love feelings xD 🤣

Living alone help me to understand what I really want and don't want from my potential partner. Much more than I was in relationship. If you okay with yourself - you will be much more attractive to other people rather than chasing their love or approval

It’s absolutely healthy to be okay by yourself! Being independent and not needing love, yet wanting it, is the ideal, because that is the point where healthy and stable relationships begin. Good luck! ❤️

Sure :) Me, myself and I until someone amazing comes along and changes your life. Till then, you do life solo 😊✌️

I started to feel that way. This year was a promise I made to myself, which was to put myself out there no matter what happens. To say I gave it a good shot considering where I currently am right now.

Yeah it's quite ok thinking like that... But being like that is quite the opposite, principally.

That's just true

Yes

When you have a bad past you tend to think like this

From experience point of view ..I would say thought process and way of things change with time...it's just a phase where you will end up thinking what you have asked about..then there will be days you will have sudden realisation we do need someone in life :)

Yes I did and it was a big mistake....i rectified that mistake...

I felt that for 21 years 😂

Beats being hurt by others.

It's Not About Single It's All About Be With Right Person.

Yess i am single but its very difficult because in relationship we can talk, share our bad good all with our partner

That's finding peace by yourself

Ya, there's nothing wrong with that. There's a difference between being alone and being lonely. Solitude is a great place to find happiness when it's approach well.

Totally

Depends on age

I'm on year 3 and I'm in a non official thing I've waited 20 years for which could be more. Either way, they are in my life. The key is ALWAYS to let things be and make yourself available on all the levels you can handle.

Oh yeah, I've been single for 21 years and dunno how it feels like even having a partner

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