Sanskar

Posted February 2, 2023

INTJ
Cancer

Girls and conversations

I've noticed this common trait in every girl that I've talked to online is that they won't try to start the conversation also when I try to have a conversation they would always act disinterested like they are being forced to talk to me. Like if you didn't want to talk why did you even liked me? I'm not gonna kiss your feet just because you're a girl.

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Tallee

1mo

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Aries

2w1

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Normally for me, I wait to see if the other person will initiate because I've had too many relationships in the past where I was the only one pushing in all the effort and constantly being drained. So I wait in order to make sure I might not be screwed over again. For other girls, they might have similar situations. But then again it differs from person to person.

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Equinox

1mo

INFP
Cancer

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Interesting here for example when I am simply trying to make friend with friend I try to make them comfortable as possible but some respond I guess like I don't genuinely blame them as I understand that even though they might get more response lot of people creep can come so they are more in guard . Yeah your right I can be differ from person to person but here in most people you need take the led

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Tessy Bhal

1mo

INFP
Gemini

Ahhh it happens across the globe? Ya the attitude just kills it rite?

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Ahmed

1mo

INFP
Taurus

Superiority complex. Don't try to force any conversation if the other person isn't willing to take part.

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Micaela

1mo

ESFJ
Virgo

4w5

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Personally I like dominant males so I prefer men confident enough to approach me. I equate ability to articulate thought ideas views and passions as a means of defining his worth behind closed doors. If you cannot muster courage to break the ice then you come with limits. For example I read what you said about self which was great husband material but not every potential wife needs, wants, desires, seeks or believes that just from reading. You can't prove that til your married. So tell me about you is not really having a conversation nor does it show real interest.

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Julius

1mo

INTJ
Aries

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I just don't talk at all anymore. No mattet how much I want it - it's not worth the effort. I'm not here to entertain them or boost their ego. If they want to talk - they can write first, and actually talk.

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Gianmarco

1mo

INFJ
Cancer

2w1

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Dude I feel you... Hold on 👊🏻

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Ana

1mo

INTP
Gemini

9w1

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Not only girls, seeing this happens to me with guys too. I don't understand those people either. There are some nice people here though, so don't lose hope.

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