Anyta

1mo

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Aries

7w8

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Do we fall in love right away, or does this process last as long as we’re with our partner?

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Maya

1mo

INFJ
Leo

8w7

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The beginnings are just initiators , it grows more and more after

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Anyta

1mo

ESFP
Aries

7w8

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Yeah, absolutely right🙌

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Timothy

1mo

INTJ
Leo

9w1

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Depends on the person and the chemistry between you and the other person.

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Yasir

1mo

ISFJ
Capricorn

3w4

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✨👍🏻

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Anyta

1mo

ESFP
Aries

7w8

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Sun

1mo

ENTP
Scorpio

2w3

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I believe it can be both!

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Anyta

1mo

ESFP
Aries

7w8

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Yeah, why not🙌

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Adien

1mo

INFP
Virgo

5w6

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I fall fast, it is something I'm working on.

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Anyta

1mo

ESFP
Aries

7w8

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Thats great 🙌

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Julius

1mo

INTJ
Aries

5w6

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Both ways. It can take a long time, and it can take one moment.

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Anyta

1mo

ESFP
Aries

7w8

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For sure, no two situations are alike

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Ivan

1mo

INTJ
Aries

5w6

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Love is like a house plant. It starts as a seed. It doesn't bear fruit right away. When you plant it, you expect growth. But... If you leave it to tend for itself, it dies. (On a brighter note: nice picture.)

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Anyta

1mo

ESFP
Aries

7w8

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You're absolutely right. Love must be kept as fire in the fireplace every single day (Thanx😊 i do love cats, dogs, all animals at all😁)

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Peach McGuffin

1mo

INTP
Taurus

6w7

6

7

To me 'love' is something that grows. The initial feeling is more infatuation.

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Anyta

1mo

ESFP
Aries

7w8

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Yes, i agree 👍🙌

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Mo Re Nam

1mo

INTJ
Libra

5w6

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Depends on your definition of "Love"

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Anyta

1mo

ESFP
Aries

7w8

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Love is a great gift. It is the light and warmth that you are ready to give your loved one. Its an absolute acceptance and understanding. It’s when you don’t get, and you give with great joy, expecting nothing in return

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Mo Re Nam

1mo

INTJ
Libra

5w6

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@Anyta I wanna answer by using a part of your definition. You mentioned "absolute acceptance and understanding". Since acceptance comes after understanding, I stick to understanding. I think we can all agree that understanding something happens gradually and it's a process. So you answered your question.

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Aaron

1mo

INTJ
Gemini

1w2

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I think love is ever growing. I've felt strongly for others quickly but the feelings left as soon as they did..I had a 10 year relationship, even though we're very different people now i still love her

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Wanderingsoul

1mo

INTJ
Aquarius

It's a bit semantic...what is love. I think it requires going through some sh*t together. I think it's when if you lose them for whatever reason your life would fundamentally change. That's "in love" with someone. Not the same as just general love for people. You can certainly have chemistry, desire, or connection, feelings for people almost instantly. Once in love though it will grow until its starved or suffocated like any other living thing.

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Phil

1mo

INTJ
Capricorn

9w1

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Love has different definition depending on who youre talking to sooo both i would say xD

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C.R.Mittens

1mo

INFP
Taurus

4w5

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I think it’s not the same for everyone / every couple. Some one fall in love right away and never fell out of it. Some takes time. Some fall head over heels at first sight then fall back out the next day.

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Alma

1mo

ENTP
Gemini

4w5

4

5

Both

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heavymetalz

1mo

ISTJ
Pisces

1w9

1

9

lasts as long as stay attached.

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