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Dawn
Dawn

28d

INFJ

Cancer

1
2

Choice.

My ex husband wants to make things work but I don't think I do.

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James

James

28d

ENTP

Gemini

4
5

If you've already got divorced then it's a little late to make things work. He may not understand that yet, but over time I bet he figures it out. Whatever it is that drove you apart was bad enough to keep you apart all the way through the court hearings.

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Dan

Dan

28d

ENFP

Leo

3

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🚜 Deere 🚜

🚜 Deere 🚜

28d

ESTJ

Leo

9
8

Is it okay to ask why? Have you done any personal counseling? Marriage? You posted for some reason. Do you understand yourself well enough to know why? Not trying to be an ass. Just trying to understand and help if possible

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Dark Knight 1971

Dark Knight 1971

28d

INTP

Scorpio

8
7

I read your profile, you're separated and filling for divorce. Ask yourself who wanted to be separated and why? Who wanted a divorce and why? If you don't want to be with your ex anymore then don't be with him anymore. You're smart, a nurse if I remember correctly, a mother, a woman, a daughter, a sister, a friend, a lover, a fighter, and oh yeah you're also attractive. So with that being said you should have no problem finding "the one" for you. Focus on healing from trauma, finding yourself and your inner peace, and of course taking care of your family. Sorry for your loss, truly I am. I also have one in heaven.

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William Marsden

William Marsden

28d

ISTJ

Libra

8
7

He's an ex for a reason js

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River

River

28d

INFP

Scorpio

If you don't want to, then there must be a good reason for that

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Shimmy

Shimmy

26d

INFJ

Virgo

6
7

It ended for a reason

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Cee

Cee

28d

ENFP

Pisces

9
1

If you're doubting it than I would say stand by your decision. I've been in that position albeit not marriage but i was convinced to stay and ended up 3 years behind on the fresh start I had been looking forward to. i obviously don't know the whole dynamic of your situation but in my experience I've found if your heart is saying something about it than it's best to listen to it. as my Good friend has always reminded me, nothing worthwhile is easy. I'm sure it's especially difficult as a devoted mother to put thoughts of yourself first but it could end up being the better for everyone with time saved to spend moving forward instead of running in place. just my thoughts from my personal experience. i just went thru it and I'm beginning to feel liberated for the first time in over a decade. i have found a great deal of comfort starting over on my own under my own volition. Either way, No matter which path you choose i hope it heads straight towards some peace and happiness. You deserve it! and I believe in you! you got this! poz vibe emulation! (edited)

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Elijah

Elijah

27d

ENTP

Sagittarius

You're completely allowed to not want that anymore and it's ok to be done with a chapter in your life. Some people are in our lives for a season, some are in our lives for a reason.

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Ruben

Ruben

27d

ISFJ

Aries

9
1

Greetings Dawn. Excellent post. Thank you for sharing this. If he's an "ex" husband, then he's an "ex" for a specific reason. Tell him it's time to move forward with his life and not go in reverse. There's a reason things didn't work out between you both. :->

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Karmaneh

Karmaneh

20d

INTP

Gemini

9
1

It's always better to know what you don't want rather than what you do want. Easy decision. Look after yourself.

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Saurav

Saurav

25d

ENFJ

Pisces

5
4

It's great that you have the courage to explore your feelings and consider what you truly want. Remember, prioritizing your own happiness and well-being is important. Whatever you decide, trust that it’s the right choice for you.🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

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Robert Bedwell

Robert Bedwell

27d

ESTP

Virgo

I agree with you wholeheartedly as I’m going through the same situation and I’m to the point with if it didn’t work the first time ! What makes a difference this time. It’s time to break free and find someone who makes you loved and appreciated!

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Ellie

Ellie

28d

INFP

Cancer

6
7

Then don't. Put time and effort in connections you value. Just because he wants it, doesn't mean you have to oblige.

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Sauron

Sauron

28d

ESFJ

Capricorn

2
1

Den don't give him a chance

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Rob

Rob

28d

INFP

Virgo

6
5

I wish you the best 🖤

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Sky

Sky

27d

ISTJ

Libra

9
1

Don't live on false hope. You'll just age faster.

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IceMelon

IceMelon

28d

ISFJ

Gemini

Ex are such a pain.... I wouldn't know just what I heard

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Ravy

Ravy

28d

INFJ

Virgo

Don't force or settle things if it's not mutual

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Dario

Dario

28d

INTJ

Sagittarius

3
4

Then don't, no worries. Try to be happy on your own or by your own, it's alright not to want that.

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Jaime Arroyo

Jaime Arroyo

28d

ISTJ

Gemini

8
7

Good because you definitely deserve way more than that. 🤗🥺🙌🏼.

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Eddie

Eddie

27d

INFJ

Taurus

5
4

Once the trust is gone, it's extremely hard to get it back ...

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Sergio

Sergio

27d

INFP

Cancer

Don’t, we both cancer how about you and I get to know each other

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Michal

Michal

27d

INFP

Gemini

4
5

Not enought information to give any advice

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Jeff

Jeff

28d

INTP

Pisces

6
7

He may need to go make things work on his own and is afraid to do that alone. Sometimes the hardest thing a man can face is the person in the mirror. He'll get the hang of it, eventually. In the meantime, live your best life for yourself and your kids.

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0U812VH

0U812VH

27d

INFP

Sagittarius

6
7

Honestly sit and reflect on what you envision for your future and whether rebuilding the relationship aligns with that vision. Ultimately, the decision should be based on what you believe is best for your well-being and happiness.

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Dale

Dale

27d

ESFJ

Pisces

You don’t need advice, you already know your answer, be strong with it, don’t doubt yourself.

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Bryan E

Bryan E

28d

INTP

Libra

I’m not married but I grew up with my parents being separated and eventually divorced. Think about how your decisions might impact the future of your little ones; if you’re happy with the outcome and being held responsible by them when they come of age, then make your choice. If you don’t feel safe nor comfortable with your ex, therefore you feel and the lawyers assume you have irreconcilable differences, then make a decision that will be beneficial for both parties and keep growing apart. He will always be the father of your kids and you will always feel a connection with that part of him. Marriage should be a beautiful thing not to take for granted, love and let yourself be loved. Good luck !

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Benjamin

Benjamin

28d

INFP

Capricorn

Real talk, you have the best sense of what’s going to be the best for you. If its worth it, maybe ask him why he wants to keep things going. When I was in your position, the curiosity was more than I could take and I had to know. But you are the expert on what works for you. If it’s him, awesome. If it’s not, that’s awesome too. Good luck ❤️

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Aush

Aush

27d

INFP

Libra

8
7

Why not?

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Fer

Fer

28d

INTP

Taurus

4
5

Nuff said

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Tee

Tee

27d

INTJ

Leo

8
7

Ex it means expired, unless if the feeling is mutual.

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Siddharth joseph

Siddharth joseph

28d

INTP

Scorpio

8
7

Have a fun roller coaster ride 😅

Have a fun roller coaster ride 😅

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