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Posted Saturday, October 5, 2024
28d
INFJ
Cancer
Choice.
My ex husband wants to make things work but I don't think I do.
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James
28d
ENTP
Gemini
If you've already got divorced then it's a little late to make things work. He may not understand that yet, but over time I bet he figures it out. Whatever it is that drove you apart was bad enough to keep you apart all the way through the court hearings.
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Dan
28d
ENFP
Leo
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Dark Knight 1971
28d
INTP
Scorpio
I read your profile, you're separated and filling for divorce. Ask yourself who wanted to be separated and why? Who wanted a divorce and why? If you don't want to be with your ex anymore then don't be with him anymore. You're smart, a nurse if I remember correctly, a mother, a woman, a daughter, a sister, a friend, a lover, a fighter, and oh yeah you're also attractive. So with that being said you should have no problem finding "the one" for you. Focus on healing from trauma, finding yourself and your inner peace, and of course taking care of your family. Sorry for your loss, truly I am. I also have one in heaven.
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William Marsden
28d
ISTJ
Libra
He's an ex for a reason js
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River
28d
INFP
Scorpio
If you don't want to, then there must be a good reason for that
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Shimmy
26d
INFJ
Virgo
It ended for a reason
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Cee
28d
ENFP
Pisces
If you're doubting it than I would say stand by your decision. I've been in that position albeit not marriage but i was convinced to stay and ended up 3 years behind on the fresh start I had been looking forward to. i obviously don't know the whole dynamic of your situation but in my experience I've found if your heart is saying something about it than it's best to listen to it. as my Good friend has always reminded me, nothing worthwhile is easy. I'm sure it's especially difficult as a devoted mother to put thoughts of yourself first but it could end up being the better for everyone with time saved to spend moving forward instead of running in place. just my thoughts from my personal experience. i just went thru it and I'm beginning to feel liberated for the first time in over a decade. i have found a great deal of comfort starting over on my own under my own volition. Either way, No matter which path you choose i hope it heads straight towards some peace and happiness. You deserve it! and I believe in you! you got this! poz vibe emulation! (edited)
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Elijah
27d
ENTP
Sagittarius
You're completely allowed to not want that anymore and it's ok to be done with a chapter in your life. Some people are in our lives for a season, some are in our lives for a reason.
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Ruben
27d
ISFJ
Aries
Greetings Dawn. Excellent post. Thank you for sharing this. If he's an "ex" husband, then he's an "ex" for a specific reason. Tell him it's time to move forward with his life and not go in reverse. There's a reason things didn't work out between you both. :->
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Karmaneh
20d
INTP
Gemini
It's always better to know what you don't want rather than what you do want. Easy decision. Look after yourself.
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Saurav
25d
ENFJ
Pisces
It's great that you have the courage to explore your feelings and consider what you truly want. Remember, prioritizing your own happiness and well-being is important. Whatever you decide, trust that it’s the right choice for you.🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
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Robert Bedwell
27d
ESTP
Virgo
I agree with you wholeheartedly as I’m going through the same situation and I’m to the point with if it didn’t work the first time ! What makes a difference this time. It’s time to break free and find someone who makes you loved and appreciated!
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Ellie
28d
INFP
Cancer
Then don't. Put time and effort in connections you value. Just because he wants it, doesn't mean you have to oblige.
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Dario
28d
INTJ
Sagittarius
Then don't, no worries. Try to be happy on your own or by your own, it's alright not to want that.
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Jaime Arroyo
28d
ISTJ
Gemini
Good because you definitely deserve way more than that. 🤗🥺🙌🏼.
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Bryan E
28d
INTP
Libra
I’m not married but I grew up with my parents being separated and eventually divorced. Think about how your decisions might impact the future of your little ones; if you’re happy with the outcome and being held responsible by them when they come of age, then make your choice. If you don’t feel safe nor comfortable with your ex, therefore you feel and the lawyers assume you have irreconcilable differences, then make a decision that will be beneficial for both parties and keep growing apart. He will always be the father of your kids and you will always feel a connection with that part of him. Marriage should be a beautiful thing not to take for granted, love and let yourself be loved. Good luck !
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Benjamin
28d
INFP
Capricorn
Real talk, you have the best sense of what’s going to be the best for you. If its worth it, maybe ask him why he wants to keep things going. When I was in your position, the curiosity was more than I could take and I had to know. But you are the expert on what works for you. If it’s him, awesome. If it’s not, that’s awesome too. Good luck ❤️
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Aush
27d
INFP
Libra
Why not?
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Fer
28d
INTP
Taurus
Nuff said
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