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Daniel
Posted Wednesday, December 28, 2022
1y
INFP
Taurus
Would you go out or love a man who has anxiety or any kind of social flaw?
That's a real question, because this year I've gone out with 2 girls and the two have stopped the relationship when they learned that i have social problems (13years of hard bullying and 2 years of depression, it leaved a mental scar), so i am reflecting on myself and thinking that i must be the problem and i should try to force myself to socialize and try to do things "like everyone". What do you think of it? And again would you accept and love someone that has socializing problems or is really shy with others? I'm not seeking for someone to cheer me up, I'm asking honest thoughts about it even if it is hard to swallow. Love y'all ^^
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Sarah
1y
ISTJ
Gemini
Yes, and honestly, like most things dating, this is a very subjective thing. Those women didn't like you for your social "flaws", which only means they aren't the one you were looking for. I think all of my partners have had some sort of social or mental challenge. It doesn't make you a worse person or a challenge to date. Like everyone else, you gotta find someone willing to like you for you, including your flaws.
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Peach, Manipulative Bastard
1y
INTP
Taurus
It depends... I've been with someone who was depressed and it was hard because they're always sad. He was sweet but super unmotivated to do anything. Honestly though, everyone has issues. Only difference is how you manage it.
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Ana
1y
INTP
Gemini
I would and I have. We all face troubles in life, what sets us apart is how we deal with them, what kind of person we become after being challenged. Don't feel bad that the wrong women didn't stay, be thankful, this way you're free to find the right one, who will understand and respect what you've been through and help you with future challenges.
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π₯Anomalousπ₯
1y
ENFP
My first girlfriend was rather shy and I broke up with her because she was also shy with me. She was very passive, I had to start every conversation or activity and I found that to be boring and tiresome. I would actually prefer a partner with problems over a "perfect" one, as long as she intends to grow and doesn't turn them against me, like a narcissist. However, it's subjective what kind of a partner's problems one is willing to live with. For a man shyness can be a problem if it makes him appear weak. I hope you'll find someone! ππΌπ (edited)
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