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Daniel

Daniel

1y

INFP

Taurus

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Would you go out or love a man who has anxiety or any kind of social flaw?

That's a real question, because this year I've gone out with 2 girls and the two have stopped the relationship when they learned that i have social problems (13years of hard bullying and 2 years of depression, it leaved a mental scar), so i am reflecting on myself and thinking that i must be the problem and i should try to force myself to socialize and try to do things "like everyone". What do you think of it? And again would you accept and love someone that has socializing problems or is really shy with others? I'm not seeking for someone to cheer me up, I'm asking honest thoughts about it even if it is hard to swallow. Love y'all ^^

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Sarah

Sarah

1y

ISTJ

Gemini

8
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Yes, and honestly, like most things dating, this is a very subjective thing. Those women didn't like you for your social "flaws", which only means they aren't the one you were looking for. I think all of my partners have had some sort of social or mental challenge. It doesn't make you a worse person or a challenge to date. Like everyone else, you gotta find someone willing to like you for you, including your flaws.

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Peach, Manipulative Bastard

Peach, Manipulative Bastard

1y

INTP

Taurus

6
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It depends... I've been with someone who was depressed and it was hard because they're always sad. He was sweet but super unmotivated to do anything. Honestly though, everyone has issues. Only difference is how you manage it.

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Ana

Ana

1y

INTP

Gemini

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I would and I have. We all face troubles in life, what sets us apart is how we deal with them, what kind of person we become after being challenged. Don't feel bad that the wrong women didn't stay, be thankful, this way you're free to find the right one, who will understand and respect what you've been through and help you with future challenges.

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πŸ₯€AnomalousπŸ₯€

πŸ₯€AnomalousπŸ₯€

1y

ENFP

My first girlfriend was rather shy and I broke up with her because she was also shy with me. She was very passive, I had to start every conversation or activity and I found that to be boring and tiresome. I would actually prefer a partner with problems over a "perfect" one, as long as she intends to grow and doesn't turn them against me, like a narcissist. However, it's subjective what kind of a partner's problems one is willing to live with. For a man shyness can be a problem if it makes him appear weak. I hope you'll find someone! πŸ™πŸΌπŸ€ (edited)

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Dylan

Dylan

1y

INFP

Gemini

Everyone will say "of course" but the truth is they're only saying that to save face. The reality is men can only be loved as machine parts, we're objects that make people money and if you are in any way "broken" you're unlovable. We're just like Rudolph's misfit toys.

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