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Terrence

3 days ago

ENFP
Libra

7w8

7

8

Do women shoot their shot in 2022?

I think I've honestly only had one woman approach me and ask for my number. That was in highschool 8 years ago.😬 If some of you do, what makes you want to approach the man?

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Zola

3 days ago

ENFP
Libra

9w1

9

1

Yes by manifesting it saying a prayer and leaving it to the universe. But you men are anything but telepathic ugh😬

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TheOne

3 days ago

ENTJ
Capricorn

8w7

8

7

πŸ˜‚ A lot of women stay single because of that. There's nothing wrong approaching someone you like

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Mela

3 days ago

INFP
Gemini

8w7

8

7

Soooo true lol 🀣

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Zola

3 days ago

ENFP
Libra

9w1

9

1

Meh too much work🀭

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Zola

3 days ago

ENFP
Libra

9w1

9

1

Right! You get it😎

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AngeL

3 days ago

INFJ
Taurus

manifesting ftw! πŸ˜‚πŸ€£

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AJ

3 days ago

ISTJ
Capricorn

3w4

3

4

The times I have asked a man out, it is because he was attentive towards me. When I wasn't outwardly interested, he did not pursue but was polite. When things naturally progressed to us talking more, he was eager to talk to me often. He responded in a timely manner to my texts. The conversations could have started surface level (it's only normal) but eventually became deeper and more about viewpoints. At that point, it becomes clear if a relationship is possible. Because it was, whatever it is, that sense of "we click", I confessed feelings and asked him out. Similarly, I broke up with him because he eventually gained the habit of one-worded replies, always being too busy to chat, and going days (about 4 days) without talking to me. (And to be clear because I'd like to avoid being called clingy... I mean radio silence, no sight of each other, if I had been given a heads up like "Hey I'll be too busy over the next couple of days" it would have been fine) I've been using singular he/him, but this description would accurately describe both of my ex boyfriends. If you wonder if looks factor into it, they do- makes no sense for people to date those they are not attracted to. I found them both good-looking in their own ways and took many pictures of/with them while dating. But for one guy, other girls always made fun of him (and by extension me) while with the other guy girls always flirted with him (even when they knew he was already taken). Beauty is definitely in the eye of the beholder. It was so weird dealing with the stark contrast in treatments. Okay now I'm ranting, but honestly, I really wish my second ex had shut down girls who flirted at him instead of going along with it, and I wish my first ex had stopped trying so hard to get all the bullies to like him.

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Ebel

2 days ago

INFJ
Leo

So real. I felt your heart in this, I think. I want people to have that kind of love where they are attentive to the how someone could ever hurt, and be focused on each other's happiness and joy always. Thanks a ton for sharingπŸ‘‹

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Emmanuel

3 days ago

ISTJ
Scorpio

1w9

1

9

Women never/hardly do. Rejection is like kryptonite to them.

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Scott

3 days ago

INFJ
Virgo

They'll say men need to be more confident but show no confidence themselves (usually the opposite)

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Ebel

3 days ago

INFJ
Leo

Yes. However I feel expectations are very high when they do

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Alex

2 days ago

ENFP
Aries

What do you think our expectations are?

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Ebel

2 days ago

INFJ
Leo

Our? I can never say. Minds are beautiful and far distant from my own at all times seeming. However it's easy for me to see something to appreciate and adore.

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Ebel

2 days ago

INFJ
Leo

It's regular for a man to move on a lady and get shot down for the sake of even maybe only a boyfriend or something. However as a guy I like to see smiles, especially women's smile when Imy saying something to them.

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Ash

3 days ago

ISTJ
Aries

I've been shooting my shot ever since high school 🀣 really depends on the woman and how comfortable they feel stepping out of that comfort zone. I'm not afraid to go up to a guy, compliment him or make small talk, and ask for his number if he's interested. But that doesn't mean women out there want to do that, some genuinely prefer the guy to make the first move.

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Andy the Lancer

3 days ago

INTJ
Sagittarius

3w4

3

4

I get the occasional "hi" or "hey handsome" from boo, but they barely have a profile, so I think they are fake

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Terrence

3 days ago

ENFP
Libra

7w8

7

8

Same honestly

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Eri kalemaj

3 days ago

ISTJ
Capricorn

Thats nothing bro let me tell you what is happening to me in the place i work ther are 3 girls who like me 1 come around me like a dice try to get attention(but dry on dm and let me on delivered like she has 20 or more guys on dm πŸ˜’) the second one act like i m the most funny person on the earth(i know i m funny but not on that part when people fall in the ground..she live me too on delivered) the 3d one whant to get my attention in evryway that is possible by asking for easy things for help and allways try to find ways to talk to me and cep the convo on going(but is the opposite in the dm) + talking for me to her mother(her mom told me evrything she told for me evem thought she exagerate a littel bite πŸ˜…) sorry for the bad grammar

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Terrence

3 days ago

ENFP
Libra

7w8

7

8

I relate heavily πŸ˜‚

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Ginny

3 days ago

ENFP
Leo

7w8

7

8

I really forward when I’m interesting in someone I totally approach them first, But I think many people scared of rejection or lose thier power, Because men play hard to get game too when they know I’m interest, I can’t take that annoying game just move on to someone real. So every genders if you’re interest in someone don’t be afraid to put yourself out there, You should choose rather than wait for others to choose you.

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Brianna

3 days ago

ESFJ
Taurus

9w1

9

1

In real life? I'm too shy. Now if I was already talking to someone, I have no fears in asking them out at all.

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Moses

3 days ago

ENTJ
Virgo

8w7

8

7

Bro, these last few days I've been driving a 2022 GMC suv. I noticed that girls started getting out of their own way to try and make themselves noticed. Let that sink in for a bit.

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Scott

3 days ago

INFJ
Virgo

People constantly tell me how attractive I am (physically and otherwise) but I've only ever had one woman ask for my number and I think she only did it because she could tell I was in a relationship. Women don't chase men, they wait for men to chase them.

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