Long distance relationship

Question

What are the pros & cons of a long distance relationship. And would you get yourself involved in one?

Fah · Accepted Answer

Personally I have never been in a LDR and I can't imagine myself in one. I miss people easily and not being able to be with them often would be too upsetting. Also, my love language is physical touch. I know a few people who enjoy them and have had healthy relationships from them though.

Bun · Answer

I was in ldr before it was so fun having someone to talk , share everything and having someone who asking me how's my day and giving me the love I've never felt before , but the part I don't like is when he's acting cold and didn't tell me the reason and ofc I always overthinking scared he will find someone better and leave me (trust issue) but ya at the end he keep hurting me so ya I think I'll just let him go:(

Mima · Answer

Takes a lot of work. Being in a relationship is already work enough, add to it the long distance, time difference and the efforts to keep the flame going. Unless you’re comitted to each other then it will be worth it.

Viva🌌 · Answer

I have never had one so I can't really say. It seems difficult but so doable if the person is special. I would have to meet them first in person to know if we have a bond, a spark or connection that can sustain. It's important that the conversation flows easily too because once you are not together again, that is all you have left.
Pros - You won't be too much in each others space and can keep having real conversations. 
Cons - No cuddles and doing things together 🙁

Sabby · Answer

Pros are you got someone to talk to and travel with. cons are some are bad at communicating and just want instant validation or whatever. If you're poly pros are you can form a cute polycule together. cons are there are a lot of people who are polyamorous but with a monogamous mindset and they try to fix their other relationships by adding a new one. That's what I can think of off the top of my head without any context.

Shaz · Answer

Pros: It's a challenge so it takes real effort to make it work. If you get through it, you know the feelings are real and he/she's the right one.

Distance makes the heart grow fonder.. it will make you appreciate the person even more.

Cons:
Not able to communicate in face and see each other..talking on a video call and talking to the person looking in the eyes is very different!

Not able to hang out

Different timezones

Physical touch/lack of presence

I think there are more cons than pros, but personally speaking I would get into a long distance relationship if he's worth it and if he's the right one! Like I always say, love has no limits.

Long distance relationship

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Personally I have never been in a LDR and I can't imagine myself in one. I miss people easily and not being able to be with them often would be too upsetting. Also, my love language is physical touch. I know a few people who enjoy them and have had healthy relationships from them though.

Takes a lot of work. Being in a relationship is already work enough, add to it the long distance, time difference and the efforts to keep the flame going. Unless you’re comitted to each other then it will be worth it.

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