In romantic relationships, I disagree; I don’t like losing.
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Ezra
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Yes, genuinely to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all. It took me years and some therapy to get overpain, but I learnt very simple and basicthings about love that kept developing over almost adecade, and will likely never stop developing. It's made me proud of who I am now and how I see things. I've seen many many depressing sides of my psyche to points of the extreme which were never acted on, and yet still if I would do it all again I would choose to do so EVEN knowing I would lose. The end doesn't have to be bad, it can be forgiving and looked back on with appreciation that it happened and again it's taught me much. In a world that's cruelalways pick the kinder option. Make goodchoices and if you mistakenly don't, be kindenough to forgiveyourself :)
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Jacob
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Cancer
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I'm conflicted on this one. On one side loving is the best and painful thing to feel, but if you never loved you won't feel anything at all but it's peaceful
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“Dave Meryl”
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Aries
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Not loved at all. You can't miss what you never had.
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Posted Wednesday, March 30, 2022
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Better to have loved and lost then not to have loved at all
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I think it's better to love and lose than not to love. It's apart of the journey you take to discover your self. I definitely would not be the man I am today if I didn't have the relationships I have been through. I do hope the next one is my last but even if it's not I'm just learning more about what it is to be me.
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1w2
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In romantic relationships, I disagree; I don’t like losing.
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1y
4w5
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Yes, genuinely to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all. It took me years and some therapy to get over pain, but I learnt very simple and basic things about love that kept developing over almost a decade, and will likely never stop developing. It's made me proud of who I am now and how I see things. I've seen many many depressing sides of my psyche to points of the extreme which were never acted on, and yet still if I would do it all again I would choose to do so EVEN knowing I would lose. The end doesn't have to be bad, it can be forgiving and looked back on with appreciation that it happened and again it's taught me much. In a world that's cruel always pick the kinder option. Make good choices and if you mistakenly don't, be kind enough to forgive yourself :)
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1w2
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I'm conflicted on this one. On one side loving is the best and painful thing to feel, but if you never loved you won't feel anything at all but it's peaceful
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5w4
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Not loved at all. You can't miss what you never had.
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