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Risha
Risha

2y

ENTJ

Pisces

Waiting until marriage?

Would you leave your partner if they expressed their wish to wait until marriage for sex/sexual activity? Honest answers please!

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Khang

Khang

2y

ISFP

Capricorn

I wouldn't be in a committed relationship with someone who has that preference but I have nothing against it. Sexual compatibility plays a factor in commitment to marriage for me so it's a chicken and egg situation. That being said if that's your preference then just find someone who's on the same page. (edited)

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Eren

Eren

2y

ENTP

Leo

9
1

I think I would, because to me, waiting for marriage involves someother idea or being's consent before the couple is allowed to have sex, which in turn creates a very strange emphasis on sex for the other instead of between the two.

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F

F

2y

ISTP

Pisces

5
4

Nope, that's actually ideal.

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Colin

Colin

2y

INTJ

Taurus

5
4

Yes. Puritanical views around sex are antithetical to my values.

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Elijah

Elijah

2y

ENFJ

Aries

Sex isn't everything in a relationship. For me, hell yeah I'll wait! I respect that person's wishes more than lustful urges. Having self restraint is a strength I believe not alot of people have and it shows. But to each their own, you know? It's not for everybody. That's another reason why it's such a gamble to find the right person who loves you for you. 😊

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Ethan

Ethan

2y

ISTP

Cancer

This is pretty simple, if they wanna wait until marriage then gotta wait if you love said partner and they wanna reserve it for marriage you gotta do what you gotta do. As well as some people are just religious like that and you wouldn't wanna trample over someone beliefs and hurt them just because.

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Vivian

Vivian

2y

INTJ

Taurus

5
4

No I wouldn't. Respect his wish

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Jared

Jared

2y

ISFJ

Taurus

7
8

That would make me stay, hookup culture is a disaster

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Vinss

Vinss

2y

INTJ

Gemini

9
8

Well I also like that.... I ddnt allowed to do sex before married, even he ddnt touch me when we met personally while I know he wanna hug me so bad...but he respected me, and after more than 6 months.. We're married... And we can do everything 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥰🥰🥰 (edited)

Well I also like that.... I ddnt allowed to do sex before married, even he ddnt touch me when we met personally while I know he wanna hug me so bad...but he respected me, and after more than 6 months.. We're married... And we can do everything 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥰🥰🥰

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Alexander

Alexander

2y

INTP

Sagittarius

2
1

No, because if I end up not liking them later on I don't risk having children with them

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Maecc

Maecc

2y

INFJ

Pisces

6
5

Wont leave them!

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Warren

Warren

2y

ISTJ

Libra

I would not partner with someone with whom I've never had sex with.

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Lindsey

Lindsey

2y

INTP

Libra

I would. Sex is a very important part of a romantic relationship for me, I wouldn't commit without extensive test driving.

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Witch

Witch

2y

INFP

Pisces

5
6

No

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Menna

Menna

2y

INFJ

Virgo

I will wait but id feel frustrated for sure But i know for a fact that if i truely love them then i only wanna do it with them and i think id not experience full pleasure with anyone else so waiting is the best option (edited)

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Aurora

Aurora

2y

INFJ

Gemini

8
9

No, i would prefer it if they wished to wait

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Mustafa

Mustafa

2y

INFP

Aries

7
8

No

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Taha

Taha

2y

INTJ

Aquarius

Nop

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Tameka

Tameka

2y

ESTP

Aquarius

If it were someone that I wasn't alreadt comitted to, I wouldn't stick around. If we were already in a relationship, while I would respect his decision, I can't say what I would do. Depends on whether I saw the relationship headed towards marriage or if we were just dating. If it were the latter, I'm sure I would wish him well.

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James

James

2y

ENFJ

Leo

I'm not sure. I'm still a virgin :(

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Ryan

Ryan

2y

INTP

Aquarius

5
6

This should be something to discuss before even committing to a relationship. Sexual activity could wait. However, the bond between us would have to be absolutely solid. Especially if they add the no kissing/hugging (which.. ive seen in quite a number of situations) till marriage etc along with it.

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Kari

Kari

2y

ISFJ

Cancer

Physical connection plays a part in relationships. As a teen, I would have been okay with it. As an adult, nope.

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Karima

Karima

2y

ENFP

Virgo

6
7

No !! I would happily take that

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Jerry

Jerry

2y

ISFJ

Pisces

8
9

Guess I must be old fashioned because hell no I wouldn't leave my partner if she said she wanted to wait until marriage to become active

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Neibaf

Neibaf

2y

INTP

Sagittarius

5
6

I would probably leave. Someone putting so much importance into a social convention just for the sake of it is a big red flag to me. It's often synonymous with lack of nuance and perspective that applies in other areas of life.

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BetweenUanI

BetweenUanI

2y

ESTP

Gemini

3
4

Absolutely, especially when they are not a virgin any longer.

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