Ritwika

Posted Saturday, January 28, 2023

10mo

ISTJ
Scorpio

6w7

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Why do most guys starts the conversation with "what do you do"? Ain't there any better ice-breakers than this or "how are you"!?🤷

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Shahab

10mo

INFJ
Taurus

Maybe because we are normal human beings and not entertainers.

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Igor

10mo

ISTJ
Scorpio

6w5

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ha-ha wait, are we? :o

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Fredrick

10mo

ISTJ
Aries

5w6

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Next level icebreaker: Combine them! "How do you do?"

<a href="/u/next" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">Next</a> level icebreaker: Combine them!

"How do you do?"

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Julian

10mo

ESTJ

9w8

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Majon

10mo

INFP
Capricorn

How about you mass majorities who think like this to chillout and stop expecting so much like we're enterainers.

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Darryl

10mo

ISTP

2w1

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1

Since you have so little on your profile for me to spark off, I'd go with: How's India?

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Alex

10mo

ISTP
Virgo

2w1

2

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I believe it to be polite and rather normal. When you meet someone in real life for the first time, will you address them with a catch phrase or ask them how they are? Just because a mundane question isn't unique, it can reveal a lot about the one that's asking (either being polite or legitimately interested) and the one that's reacting imo ^^

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Eric

10mo

INTP

2w1

2

1

Establishing what a person does with 30% of their life is a good avenue into the kind of person they are. Even if you’re unsatisfied with your career, it gives you the opportunity to explain what you’d rather be doing. Opening conversations are a two way street communication. You have the chance to make an engaging reply.

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Andrés Castro

10mo

ISFJ
Libra

1w9

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What is your favorite food?

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Equinox

10mo

INFP
Cancer

4w5

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5

I tried to start conversations with asking your interest I think it just easy way to start conversations tell me how you would like men to start conversations?

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Kristen

10mo

INFJ
Aquarius

I turn how are you into a scale of 1 to 10 and then ask why which actually makes their initial (a bit dull) question more interesting and is a better ice breaker 😉

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Raghav

10mo

ESFJ
Aquarius

Reason is that it's tough to create an ice breaker, guys play safe, they dont wanna offend and they want to hold the conversation. So for guys ice breaker is tough ...holding a conversation is tougher

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Henrietta

10mo

ISTJ
Aries

8w7

8

7

Yeah exactly

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Igor

10mo

ISTJ
Scorpio

6w5

6

5

yeah. wuts up, bro? Seriously though, don't girls do the same? It's called customs. To do what everybody does is a safe start. People like safety. Doesn't always work though, thats for sure :)

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George

10mo

INTJ
Virgo

Usually I sit next to a person who I wanna talk to... Point at some random passerby and make a judgemental comment about them. From there... Smooth sailing. Works everytime lol

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Ritwika

10mo

ISTJ
Scorpio

6w7

6

7

@Alex..my question is from the pov of chat rooms and not meeting someone in IRL.

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Babak

10mo

INFJ
Gemini

I've never reached that point I'm still in the first step and say "Hi 👋" and still waiting for any feedback to go further 😄

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Vlad

10mo

INTJ
Leo

4w5

4

5

What ice breaker would you use on a guy you'd like? 🙂

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Ritwika

10mo

ISTJ
Scorpio

6w7

6

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@Shahab Ahmed..well obviously nobody asked you to do standup comedy as that takes talent 😂 and i thought entertainers were "actually humans" but maybe you have come across other beings who might have entertained you!

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Gino

10mo

INTP
Taurus

7w8

7

8

Here to learn from the comments... Don't mind me.

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Kush

10mo

ENTJ
Pisces

Lack of experience, pressure to make the right move and not to come off as a creap

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Henrietta

9mo

ISTJ
Aries

8w7

8

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Communication is a 2 way street. Any line to take the edge off works out fine.There is no set of rules to follow I guess.....

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Tarun Agnihotri

10mo

ENFJ
Cancer

Depends on your thoughts moods

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A. K. Gorain

10mo

ENFJ
Aries

4w5

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5

This is still better Imagine boys starting convo with a proposal 💀

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Luis

10mo

ENTJ
Libra

Are you able to answer that question?

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Jake Warn

10mo

ISFP
Leo

Fat penguin?

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Texas_EMT_4U

10mo

ISFJ
Leo

Well for me it's a test "are u real" question. From past experiences I can usually tell by their response to "what do you do?" question as to if they're full of BS or not, which happens a lot here.

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Puneet

10mo

ISFJ
Libra

Then what should we ask straight away

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Skyler

10mo

INTP
Scorpio

7w8

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How much does a polar bear weigh?

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Anderson

10mo

ENTP
Aquarius

Fat Tuesday is coming up

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Vivek U

10mo

ISFP
Aquarius

😁 maybe

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Julian

10mo

ESTJ

9w8

9

8

I always greet the other person at the start of a conversation, so "hi" it is?

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Algirdas

10mo

INTJ
Taurus

Give us an advice then not only critique.

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Irene

10mo

INFP
Taurus

1w2

1

2

How are you today?I went through your profile and we share alot in common.I think it is worthy it to get to know each other in a more deeper way if only you are interested.

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Ali Ahsan

10mo

INFJ
Scorpio

lets see what you will reply 😁

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