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Josh

12 days ago

ISTJ
Sagittarius

6w5

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Is it bad to be picky when on dating apps?

Personally I start looking at people and I have specific things that are big oh no nos, and sometimes it feels like I'm being judgmental. For instance some big things for me are religion, already having kids and maybe political views. I'm not religious in anyway but find it okay when someone is spiritual in ways. When it comes to someone having kids, I've tried it and I find it hard to get fully into a relationship when for the lack of better words, the attention is split. ( I know that one may make me look bad). And lastly is political views. Personally I find no Interest is politics and find that if someone is so heavily invested in their personal views that it can cause issues early on or down the road. Are these superficial? Are these things that I should be able to get past and im wrong for thinking this way or am I right?

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Gabe

12 days ago

INTP
Aquarius

4w5

4

5

You are both the supply and the demand, so I see no issue with it, just remeber that dating is to see if you and the other are comparable.

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Josh

12 days ago

ISTJ
Sagittarius

6w5

6

5

that is true, but dont you think that someone that was like a devote christian and the other an athiest have more in common then simply religion?

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Gabe

12 days ago

INTP
Aquarius

4w5

4

5

There obviously is. But that question is more about accepting the other for flaws that they find in each other.

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Josh

12 days ago

ISTJ
Sagittarius

6w5

6

5

I like that. I guess it would be up to each other to accept the fact that the others beliefs are different. I guess i find it hard to be accepted for these three specifics in the society that we live in today. Everyone seems so rigid in their beliefs and unwilling to see from another point of view.

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Gabe

12 days ago

INTP
Aquarius

4w5

4

5

Unfortunatly people are stubborn and stupid, but that's how people have been raised for centrys if not eons. Your right, I do wish people were not so, and hopefuly one day they will

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Kelly

12 days ago

ENFP
Sagittarius

I think what's most important in any healthy relationship is shared values. A lot of what you're talking about seems to be about making sure you two have values that are at least potentially compatible.

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Josh

12 days ago

ISTJ
Sagittarius

6w5

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but like should i be so dismisive if one of these things isnt what i prefer?

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Kelly

12 days ago

ENFP
Sagittarius

It can't hurt to give people a chance. Sometimes you find love in unexpected places.

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