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Agree......?

If a guys on his phone on a date should i be worried

This man that I'm talking to insists that it's better that he works and I be the housewife because the government will basically tax half our income making my income pointless. Where is he getting that from ? Is that true ? I never heard of such nonsense in my entire life.

Housewife vs working wife

Connection ftw 👉👈

Why do girls absolutely refuse to make the first move?
Or to even show interest?

By the time they reply the guy has moved on to the next 30😂

You must ask yourself

Could someone give me advice for a relationship, I've always been used in every relationship and I'm tired of being hurt. I'm just looking for the right woman

anyone else have trouble forming friendships here? I'm trying my best I just don't know why they won't message me back. I swear I'm interesting I just like to get to know people first

should I just try to say something interesting?

friendships

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Many western women prefer money over substance.
As does western society.
See the connection!
I do 🕵🏾‍♂️

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Is being in the military a red flag to you? In terms of a potential partner.

Lower your standards, maintain a realistic perspective, be willing to listen and respond, avoid discussions about sex or sex acts, be patient, calm, and courteous.

It's as simple as that

Having trouble finding a woman?

How much does physical attractiveness matter to you in a match?

I have a huge crush on this girl but I dont know if she likes me too or she is just being nice. Any advice?

Tell me about a time you've made someone else cry 😞

Totally agree

Science

Please, for the love of God, if you are on here looking for a significant other don't post pictures of you with some dude in your profile.This goes for you too men.

New to online dating, not getting matches, help?

What’s wrong with my profile?

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Been talking with someone as friends. Got their number and text every now and then. I understand they can be busy as they have children. They mentioned wanting to hangout but whenever I approach hanging out they seem vague about it or gives me short answers. Am I wasting my time trying to get to know this person or should I be patient and try and continue to work with them?

Overthinking?

Insight

Or is everybody on here significantly more attractive then they have any right being, and its intimidating to talk to anyone.

Is it just me?

My love language

Hugging someone out of nowhere is annoying! Especially if i don't know you! ffs...

Stop hugging people!

New to this app, so I wanna hear opinions and advice 👉👈😤

New app, who's this.

I've seen there is no discussion about the boundaries around emotional labour.

Briefly

Emotional labour, as in the shifting dynamics, experiences within the relationship, and dealing with the realities of life, that require participation from both partners for harmony to be maintained

We do not have enough discussion about the neurological reality of men's communication within relationships

We communicate for significantly different reasons

To directly deal with subjects so as to be understood and dealt with. Determining if action is needed or not. 

Taking the details of life and dealing with what is required.

Mens Unconscious experience is vaguely (Go through the struggle, acquire the goal. Have the Pleasure experience. )

Everything is about conserving mental energy and find the exact, perfectly formed solution to the problem. 

Unconsciously driven towards making sure what is physically needed is taken care of.

The process makes sure we stay sharp and in tune with the world. 

Men.( a significant portion of the populations of men) 
Do not bond over, amplifying the emotional content of any given experience to it's maximum, in order to explore it's contents.

There is however, highly significant pleasure and meaning derived from in engaging with the daily experiences of life like this for the women in our lives. 

This form of communication appears to allow women keep themselves within the protection of the female group

Constructing themselves into a social token, that can engage in the shared warding off the dangers of life

And support in getting what they desire from the social group at large

And to make sure focus and care is being given to the group in the best ways possible. As much as possible. For as long as possible. 

The biological realities of sickness and pain, changing needs. 

All inspire our counterparts to make sure they're being looked upon favourably. Use talking to illicit bonding experiences from those around them so that they will subconsciously seek to physically protect and politically support them. 

Our emotional requirements are significantly different

And we don't speak enough about the excess's of verbal communication within our relationships

We do not bond over more details than that are required.

We only comb through conversations for actionable details. 

We seek to be the group. Gain position and distinction within the group. This all requires physical participation and proving of ability. Peering through things and finding their essence. 

Excess of detail, constant probes for reaffirming the state of allegiancs 

all run counter to our state of survival and our natural emotional spectrum or state. 

We need to create discussion about finding the cut off point and how we can artfully meet in the middle and everyone get what they need.

It needs to become normal that Women gain the understanding of how men require and bond through silence, and actions. 

How our resistance to going to those emotional landscapes is not negative, or detrimental, or evidence of a lack of care, love, investment. 

And how some overt forms communication within the group are shut off from men 

And women never need to have any strength or ability in order to qualify for protection of the group. 

Men do 

This underpins everything for men. 

Women will not experience this pressure and the isolation that come with it. 

This needs to be taken into account when women seek to have highly emotional exchanges and illicit the daily bonding experiences they require. 

Less can do more. 

I would genuinely love thoughts and feedback and what you think. 

Best of luck 🌄

Jonny 🤙

We need to talk about emotional Labour

Without a Real connection. WOW
with all those labels and the extreme picking of words to "don't hurt another people feelings" I guess I will be alone for a Long time. 
Mood: MEh

18 Months

Work on yourself instead of crying for a partner!!

How is it that, talking to girls seems so easy then it’s a struggle to keep it going?

Relationshipadvice Community

Agree......?

If a guys on his phone on a date should i be worried

Housewife vs working wife

Connection ftw 👉👈

Why do girls absolutely refuse to make the first move? Or to even show interest? By the time they reply the guy has moved on to the next 30😂 (edited)

You must ask yourself

Rejoice

Answerable by Yes or No BUT...

This App is Not Only Dating

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Welp, I guess see ya in hell Y'all!

Very True 👌