Christy
Christy

2y

INTJ

Leo

9
1

It's hard to get to know someone.

How do you know you are talking to the right one ? How do you get to know someone ? I feel like I start out too deep and personal and people may be scared of that.

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Cristian

Cristian

2y

INFP

Capricorn

9
1

You'll know it when you won't feel like asking yourself these kind of questions. By patiently waiting for them to open up, by spending time with them. If you open up too much while chatting, try to mix in some activities in between, something you can do along with them or let them do some steps towards you, even if not immediately. If they set the pace slower than you, you should slow down just enough so that they can get comfortable around you and catch up to you (hopefully).

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Muaz

Muaz

2y

ENFP

Aries

6
5

You ask the right questions and always interact face to face .. you look into their eyes observe their body posture demonor . As they say devil is in the details .

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Arun

Arun

2y

ESTJ

Scorpio

2
3

Not have much idea about that

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Mark

Mark

2y

INTP

Cancer

8
7

I believe it's a constant trek. I've been on dates in which took 2-3 iterations to feel a connection due to possible nervousness or moment awkwardness. Rarely I have had a connection right away. The big thing in both of those scenarios is the ability to keep that connection going after you find it.

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Not A frog

Not A frog

2y

ENFP

Virgo

8
7

Do you if u scare them away they weren't meant to be

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