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Sha
Posted Friday, June 2, 2023
10mo
INFJ
Cancer
1 Award
Men, is this true? Why?
"Codependency will sink any relationship and those it doesn’t sink become toxic swamps. But wanting love and affection from your partner is not codependency: It’s a healthy and mature emotional desire. That’s why reaching out to give love and affection and being met with indifference or rejection by your partner is not OK. "
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Anna
10mo
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I'm not a man...but I fully agree with this! And so does my bf who encourages this behaviour from me... (as in the reaching out to give love and affection... and also the seeking love and affection... which he responds by increasing his own show of love and affection) Codependency on the other hand tends to be a sign of insecurity... lack of boundaries... and lack of higher purpose in life other than each other etc... if both are focussed on other purposes and goals in life... and have strong secure relationships with other people (e.g. friends and family)... codependency tends to be less likely... Codependency is relying on the other person to fulfil you and meet your needs of self-worth, happiness and all the other stuff which really can not be fulfilled by anyone else except God (if you are a believer) and yourself doing deep inner work (edited)
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