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Shannon
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Has it occurred to you the conversation aren’t great?
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Johnny
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HiShannon 100% is a factor but in allfairness I'm talking about the people that match and don't even try and have a conversation or respond to messages. You can't say a conversation isn't great if you've not even had one.
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Shannon
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@Johnny well for starters don’t take the nonresponse too personally and second try differentopenings lines 🤷♀️
Just saying “hi” or jumping to “what are you looking for” are definitely non starters for some women.
Same with conversation starters related to their appearancelike “your hot” “dang your gorgeous” giveshallowvibes.
Don’t assume they aren’t responding because they wanted an ego stroke.
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Johnny
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@Shannonsorry Shannon but that whole statement is very accusing and assuming of how these conversations go. I can only assume maybe that is some of your experience which is sad and unfortunate. But also how would you start a conversation?
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Shannon
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@Johnny if you read that in an accusing tone then I think we have found your problem.
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Johnny
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@Shannon well could you explain better then because it's strange how you can assume something what someone is saying without knowing factuallyso by definition that is accusing. Shannon are you OK? Your the second person that has ran off with an assumption.
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Shannon
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@Johnny dude I gave examples for conversation starters that tend not to go well. I also said not to take non responses personal but I can seenow you take everything personal.
You are coming off hella aggressive.
No wonder why you have issues keeping women in conversation with you.
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Johnny
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@Shannon honestly it's no aggression it's genuine confusion also the examples you gave were things not to say. Honestly I don't really take things personally but I do like closure and understanding to a situation. Also I'm really not having that many issues, I've actually gone on a fewdates. I just don't understand why people want to read my comment and manipulate to mean what they want it to me. You seem to be projecting some thoughts or feelings.
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Mαggเε♡🇿🇦
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Guys are mean too deliberately matching with me only to insult me! I think this app is full of cruel people in general.
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Johnny
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Maggie, I'm so sorry to hear that. It's sad because the genuine people end up loosing there nerve because of those kinda people. What do they even say to you?
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Can someone else explain to me when I get matches with these girls and they choose to blank me when trying to have a conversation. Honestly it's kinda sad that some people are on this app just to get there egos stroked. While some of us are genuinely trying to meet new people.
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2mo
Has it occurred to you the conversation aren’t great?
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2mo
Hi Shannon 100% is a factor but in all fairness I'm talking about the people that match and don't even try and have a conversation or respond to messages. You can't say a conversation isn't great if you've not even had one.
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2mo
@Johnny well for starters don’t take the non response too personally and second try different openings lines 🤷♀️ Just saying “hi” or jumping to “what are you looking for” are definitely non starters for some women. Same with conversation starters related to their appearance like “your hot” “dang your gorgeous” give shallow vibes. Don’t assume they aren’t responding because they wanted an ego stroke.
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@Shannon sorry Shannon but that whole statement is very accusing and assuming of how these conversations go. I can only assume maybe that is some of your experience which is sad and unfortunate. But also how would you start a conversation?
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@Johnny if you read that in an accusing tone then I think we have found your problem.
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@Shannon well could you explain better then because it's strange how you can assume something what someone is saying without knowing factually so by definition that is accusing. Shannon are you OK? Your the second person that has ran off with an assumption.
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@Johnny dude I gave examples for conversation starters that tend not to go well. I also said not to take non responses personal but I can see now you take everything personal. You are coming off hella aggressive. No wonder why you have issues keeping women in conversation with you.
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@Shannon honestly it's no aggression it's genuine confusion also the examples you gave were things not to say. Honestly I don't really take things personally but I do like closure and understanding to a situation. Also I'm really not having that many issues, I've actually gone on a few dates. I just don't understand why people want to read my comment and manipulate to mean what they want it to me. You seem to be projecting some thoughts or feelings.
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Guys are mean too deliberately matching with me only to insult me! I think this app is full of cruel people in general.
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Maggie, I'm so sorry to hear that. It's sad because the genuine people end up loosing there nerve because of those kinda people. What do they even say to you?
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