Jerry

Posted Tuesday, August 30, 2022

1y

INFP

Virgo

Would you accept a cheater back when you have a child together?

Been through a rough last 9 months thinking I was being cheated on but it's well known now. I initially accepted her back but she kept talking about this other guy and didn't seem like she cared for me anymore. I've really always let her get away with stuff and let her come back to me when she has nobody else but it's been back and forth from me to him 3 times now. I finally had enough and said never again and told her to go be with him. I still get a bit upset to this day how me her and our daughter never once gave living just the 3 of us in a home together as a family a chance. I already know this won't last long with her other man, he's 10 years older and has a kid half her age. The last 9 months I'd been unknowingly supporting this new lifestyle of hers always helping her with money. If things go south for her and she has nobody I'm not sure if it would be right for me to take her back again lnowing she is unloyal and lies about everything. I gave her countless chances. We had been together over 4 years and our daughter will be turning 3 shortly. Would you take this person back after all of this to try and make things right as a family or just avoid the potential future pain and move on? It's hard because I saw how much she used to love me she cared so much and was my best friend never wanted me to leave her side then it just instantly switched. This other person she has been with for 9 months has never once even told her he loved him..