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Posted Wednesday, October 5, 2022
1y
INFP
Cancer
Why us it when you lose everything you get lonely and want a relationship.
So I'm 20 and Ive never been in relationship or even on a date, I hate how I look and my life kinda crashed around me when covid happened. I'm a 2020 graduate and covid happened we lost our house and family business, before that got robbed twice, van got taken, Mercedes we got pit maneuvered, and now we gotta restart everything and it has just been really tough I can't handle it anymore.
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You're desiring companionship, in a state of desperation because you lost everything. I can say I understand at 50% but not the other 50% because I haven't live through your experiences but I can give advice base on similarities in my life or from somewhere. Never focus on the problems, the negative because where attention goes energy flows. Start focusing on the solutions in life, the positive & watch your reality change in from of your eyes. Okay you never been in a relationship or never dated, good that you didn't get corrupted by other people or manipulated, honor your virginity, see yourself has someone special, you're unique, rare etc. Yes, life is hard for everyone but these struggles actually makes us stronger in life, through the trials & tribulations, you gain strength from all directions, you may not see the solutions, the plan because you're deep in the material, in a negative mindset etc but things will get better, trust me. So I suggest making a self-care routine of spiritual practices like meditation, breathing exercises, barefooting, cold showers, study some philosophy, Spirituality etc, these things will help you. Also do some shadow work & you look fine to me man, there's nothing wrong with how you look, don't digest other people beliefs about you, those are just projection from their own suffering, inner world. Everything has its pros & cons in life. Change your mindset & take care of yourself.
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