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Telvar Hakim

1 month ago

INTJ
Aquarius

7w8

7

8

Is this really a Fact

Would a girl prefer good looks over stability and loyalty in a relationship? Are looks really that important to being happy with Someone and building something special?

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Richard

1 month ago

ISFJ
Pisces

6w5

6

5

I would say it depends on the girl...but yes these days more people are materialistic due to how the high pressure is for personal appearance...dont get me wrong though theres more that would rather have personality and stability there just not so easy to find

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Telvar Hakim

1 month ago

INTJ
Aquarius

7w8

7

8

Those are facts , very hard to find

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Brandy

1 month ago

INFJ
Aquarius

5w4

5

4

No, it’s not, but a connection is important. Just be honest and hope the right girl notices. Everyone else is a distraction.

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deavo_rayphel

1 month ago

INTJ
Cancer

5w6

5

6

In the west, looks are pretty important to most people, whether they'll admit it or not. This especially holds true for girls in their youth (age 15-30). There's a LOT of extremely jading red+back pill commentary one could make about this, but...it's one of those imbitterring issues y'kinda just wanna compartmentalize, & relegate to the point of nebulous abstraction. It's draining & demoralizing to think about, consciously--& so I typically don't; but it IS something guys should look into, if they haven't. Men & women have their own unique sets of plights & prerogatives, & this is one of those areas where a majority of men are gonna understandably take a negativistic attitude toward women when they initially understand the truth about them that's been duplicitously hidden. And yet, you get to a point, if mature & empathic, where you realize you'd probably behave the same as them, in their position...--not necessarily, but quite likely. Anyhow, let your intuition carefully guide you down this rabbit hole, & don't immediately go on a neurotic crusade over what you find, or start trying to radicalize others.

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Telvar Hakim

1 month ago

INTJ
Aquarius

7w8

7

8

Well said my friend! Thank you

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Kina

1 month ago

INTJ
Capricorn

3w4

3

4

It isn't a fact because all women aren't like that. Looks matter to males and females whether they want to admit it or not. I think it depends on the person just how much looks matter.

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Telvar Hakim

1 month ago

INTJ
Aquarius

7w8

7

8

You might be right, maybe am in the wrong part of Nova , cause from experience here in this area , is 94% of what I see . But I don’t think men look at looks as much as females . Men look for someone to stand by them and gonna be there for them, no offense to anyone but especially ( black men ). We want a woman that gonna make sure we are ok mentally and not need a Burkin / Gucci purse every week . And we make sure we take care of that woman because she is taken care of her man .

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Telvar Hakim

1 month ago

INTJ
Aquarius

7w8

7

8

That’s what we all would think , not from my experiences ( unfortunately)

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Lonelyboy

1 month ago

INTP
Leo

Yes

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Kendra

1 month ago

ISFJ
Gemini

For me, Absolutely not . I choose loyalty, personality and stability first then add the love and looks to the last list .. but once we grow old , our looks changes just like our body. Why would I choice the loyalty first then love last because how can you want the love if it ain’t no loyalty in it right ?

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Kycy

1 month ago

INTJ
Sagittarius

Craving for "Stability & Loyalty" ... +Caring.

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