Javed

Posted February 6, 2023

INFP
Leo

4w5

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An introvert's issue

Please advise how should I reach out a girl and start a conversation?😶😶

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Sheng

1mo

ENTP
Sagittarius

5w4

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You keep posting and commenting, knowing that girl then DM her?

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Curtis

1mo

INFP
Virgo

Maybe you could practice by talking to a friend to build up confidence. You already proved your bravery by posting. Who knows ... a girl might see this post. 🤷‍♂️

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Brandon

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Pisces

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You just say hello and comment on something that she seems interested in from her profile

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Vvip

1mo

ISTP
Aquarius

Starting a conversation with someone can be intimidating, especially if you're an introvert. Here are some tips that may help: Find common ground: Look for things you both might be interested in, such as a shared hobby, a recent event, or a class you're both taking. This can provide a natural starting point for a conversation. Prepare in advance: Think of a few questions or topics you want to discuss beforehand. This can help ease any nervousness and ensure the conversation flows smoothly. Be confident: Confidence can be attractive and help put the other person at ease. Try to approach the interaction with a positive attitude and be yourself. Listen actively: Show interest in what the other person is saying by maintaining eye contact, nodding, and asking follow-up questions. Keep it light: Starting with light, casual conversation can help break the ice and ease any tension. Avoid controversial or heavy topics initially. Remember that rejection is a normal part of socializing, and there's nothing wrong with not clicking with everyone. Just be kind, respectful, and remember that everyone has their own insecurities and challenges.

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Equinox

1mo

INFP
Cancer

4w5

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Tucker Max book book how to become man women want might help

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Sarah

1mo

ISTJ
Leo

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Chuck something at her that will get her attention 😂😂😂😂

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Dalton

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ISFJ
Cancer

There are a few decent answers here and a few funny ones… and one real bad one. Don’t ever NOT do something because it’s uncomfortable. That’s just your inner doubt - as soon as you push that aside and do what you want to do, you’ll feel much better, AND can have no regrets later, because you DID the thing!!! The answer with looking what they talk about and like, and relating to that is the best one here. Always try if you have something in common! You could just try a silly joke as well. Sometimes that works to break the ice. I’ve never had anyone lash out against me (yet) for trying, just normally don’t have any responses - and that’s fine! Don’t let yourself or other people keep you from trying to go after something you want for yourself! You’ll figure it out one way or another!!

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Lou White

1mo

INTP
Aries

5w4

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Just do it. You're going to get shot down 99 out of 100 times but that doesn't mean you will never find someone to connect with.

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BetweenUanI

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ESTP
Gemini

3w4

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Here's the best advice don't bother

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Aditi Dhar

1mo

ISTP
Aries

Praise her

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SomeCoolNicknameHere

1mo

ESTP
Cancer

7w8

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By remembering you are 24 years old.

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P. Zatarra

1mo

INTJ
Sagittarius

8w7

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Talk and share beliefs. 0_O Worst thing that can happen is that you're not her cup of tea. If so, bow out and start anew.

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Akshay

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ISFP
Scorpio

Go and eat out at some fast food corners...

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Javed

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INFP
Leo

4w5

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Thanks for your awesome comments and advise everyone 🤗😊

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