Kat

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How to regain friendship?

I've talked on this before too here. This time I'm here for an advice. So few months back, I had an online friend, and because of some argument, the 1.5 year friendship was severely affected. Now I feel empty and regret, and she doesn't even prefer to see my text. What can I do? What shouId I do? What are the possible ways to regain it? Just to get the person back?

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Adnan

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I think it's a matter of choice for you to make. I mean if you think of her as your friend and treats her like a true friend as you can be, then that's enough. If she doesn't reciprocate that, then that's her own choice to deal with. Not your responsibility. We can love somebody without the need to actually be there after all. 😄

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Kat

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I had feelings too for her, and it started getting toxic since then but now I know I won't do it

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Adnan

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@Kat Well as much as we want to keep people into our lives. We still have our limits. After all, we're not perfect on everything that we do. What matters here is you've done what you have to do. It's her choice alone if she were to accept what you feel or not.

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Kat

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@Adnan I feel like it's over, all that time of friendship gona in a minute of bad chat. We aren't perfect, exactly I apologized sincerely, but the magic is gone

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Adnan

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@Kat Well I'm sure it's quite hard to be in that kind of situation. If she doesn't want to keep you around, then the only option there is to put your trust in her that she'll be alright. Move forward with what matters and focus on what you can do at the moment. 😄

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Kat

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@Adnan It issss, I'm currently doing that because I can't be an annoying person and invade her. This is more difficult, I keep overthinking somedays.

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Adnan

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@Kat Well I'm sure you're not the only one overthinking about stuff. It makes sense when I think about it. But for sure, you'll be able to heal on that. I appreciate the thought you were able to share what you have in mind. 😄

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Kat

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@Adnan Like I'm sure it wasn't really easy for them, but they did much better than me. When you have goals focused then these things don't matter. Thank you man, for giving out such impressive suggestions and talking in such a friendly way. It really helps a person when their thought is heard and considered

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Adnan

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@Kat Well we all have a different pace in life. Either you meet along those milestones or not, it boils down to what you've done about it. You did your part, so I am sure that's enough. You're welcome. I am hoping you have a great time. May your heart and mind be at ease 😄.

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Kat

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@Adnan Exactly! And I'm a slow person for sure. It's all what happens at the moment. That changes the future. I hope it is is the good enough. Yeah thanks! This is a toughy time but I'll heal sooon!

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I'm so sorry, Kat. Why don't you tell your friend that you miss him/her and ask to apologize if you have said anything wrong, let him/her know how important that friendship is for you and how much it means to you, and that you want to talk about it openly like adults and sort it all out.

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Kat

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I did what I could do in my book. Even sincere apology got accepted, but they didn't seem to be interested in continuing the friendship. But meanwhile, I'm in the different manner for it.

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