1mo

INTJ

Virgo

87

Is it true that to make a man fall in love you must have to be s3x!u!al or se:de!dctive even on smaller levels otherwise the relationship would become like wholesome????

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Wilk

1mo

INTP

Cancer

91

Zależy od człowieka, u mnie to ogólnie chemia, wspólny flow i to czesto nie idzie w parze z seksualnością na start czy z wyglądem.

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Chris

1mo

ENFJ

Aquarius

87

I don't think so, I have always felt like it's about who is with you through your bad and good times, someone you feel comfortable beside. I don't think there has to be flirtations happening to be falling in love with someone. Everyone is different though. I'm only saying from my personal experiences.

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Saeiurra

1mo

INTJ

Libra

87

Ну якщо тобі потрібен непотріб, а не партнер то так))

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Sunni

1mo

INFP

Scorpio

67

My thoughts based off of experience and getting older is this: giving your body in exchange for love and attention from your partner builds a relationship as strong as a castle made of sand it stands strong at first but its foundation will crack and fall over time. In short, he will remember your character before he will remember the "nights" you shared. nothing will keep someone faithful you it all depends on what they value most- you or them.

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Benjiggity

1mo

INFJ

Capricorn

21

I don't think so. Just give them food and all should be good (just my opinion lol

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Praneeth

1mo

ESFJ

Taurus

45

Everyone prioritizes different things. Some people value Physical Touch, but others value Quality Time, Acts of Service, or Words of Affirmation much more. If a man's primary way of feeling loved is through deep conversation or being supported in his goals, seduction won't be the "key" to his heart. Trying to "act" a certain way (like being more seductive than you naturally feel) can actually backfire. It creates a performance rather than a partnership. Real love usually happens when both people feel they can be their 100% authentic selves—whether that's being silly, serious, or sentimental. You don't need to "perform" seduction to keep a relationship from becoming "just wholesome." A healthy relationship is a blend. It’s okay to have those quiet, wholesome moments of transcripting a poem or sharing a meal—those are often the moments where someone realizes they are actually in love.

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Sam

1mo

INTJ

Capricorn

21

Nope, not for love.

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0

Robin

1mo

ISTP

Libra

Not really. Attraction can be different for everyone, but Girls nerding out about their hobbies and being direct worked pretty well on me in the past. If you are interested in a person romantically, just be open and tell them - guys can be either a bit blind or just not very susceptible to subtle hints and nods.🙈 Also, if you are afraid that a relationship moves in a direction you don't want, you have got to communicate your wants and needs. Makes everything much, much easier for both parties and prevents unnecessary frustrations 🙂 Good luck and wish you the best in finding what you need ✨️ 💖

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0

Aj

1mo

ISTP

Virgo

If it is about love relationship.. definitely not. But pervert definitely look for such things

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0

Nuraaz Noir

1mo

ENFP

Virgo

78

Not true at all. Things happen naturally!

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0

Farooq Jamal

26d

INFP

Libra

23

Pretty sure most of these guys haven't been in a relation.. from my experience the girl became more serious and in love after something physical..so basically the opposite of what you're saying

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Hagen

1mo

ISFJ

23

Definiere kleinere Ebenen?

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ßruno

1mo

INFJ

Scorpio

78

What?

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UsagiKun

1mo

ISTP

23

Nah. But if you are soft and feminine and respect him.he will.eat from.your palm

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Rob

17d

INTJ

87

Neither. A man that sees you as an essential part of his future will choose to fall in love with you. A man that envisions you at key milestones in his life will fall in love with you. A man that sees you as a force multipler will fall in love with you. If you share a man's values and give him peace he will fall in love with you. However, if you manipulate him, he will ultimately resent you. (edited)

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BillOn

9d

ENFJ

98

I feel it’s actually the opposite. Slow and steady wins the race for dating imo. Going too fast is lust not love

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balli

5d

INTP

Sagittarius

91

the game is rigged and so are the rules

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Gema

1mo

INFP

Sagittarius

Saya pikir begitu

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