Blu

2y

INFP

Pisces

8

9

Im weird a few of my red flags would br considered normal behavior and a lot of stuff I may consider as not are red flags for other people. I.e I see a lot of people mentioning past relationships (not a red flag. We all have baggage. If you have someone who youre still pining over, let it all out.) I want to know the type of person im dealing with. Red flag -Bad tempers...its a me thing. This is a triggering trait for me because Im gonna feel like im walking on eggshells and I dont know when one will explode) Red flag- Someone with no dreams, goals and aspirations. (Its okay if we are not doing what we want... But at least have a plan at what you dream on doing even if you dont know how to get there) Red flag-Someone who hates dogs, kids or marriage (If they are not your preferences thats cool. But no deep seated hate) Red flag-commit phobes. Im too old to just be chilling. We either dating, friends or and in a temporary fwb turned dating situation. I also use the term boyfriend or girlfriend too.