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Sella

4 days ago

INTJ
Aquarius
Girl's secret😬

If they say " hmm its okay" = not okay If they say " up to you " = upset with you If they say " enjoy ur time" = don't go But if they just reply with emoticon it means " Goo....she dont wanna talk with u "πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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Cameron

4 days ago

ENTJ
Sagittarius

2w1

2

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Imagine if a woman..... just said what she was thinking. That'd be something huh?

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Jamie

4 days ago

ENFP
Leo

8w7

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Or if a man did that too..or how about if they didnt lie all time... that would REALLY be something

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Lynne

3 days ago

INTP
Gemini

Tried that. He got defensive so I gave up until I couldn't take it anymore and then left. So if you really want to know what you're partner is thinking, you have to make it safe for them to do so.

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Bruce

3 days ago

ESFJ
Gemini

Well done mate.

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Michael Metzler

3 days ago

ENFP
Leo

7w8

7

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Just re

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Kathryn

3 days ago

INFP
Leo

7w8

7

8

I say what I’m thinking all the time, none of this childish BS

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Bex

3 days ago

INTP
Capricorn

9w1

9

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You can be honest and still make it a safe place. There's a difference though between saying what needs to be said, and saying everything you feel like saying in the moment.

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Sophia

3 days ago

INFJ
Libra

I think this is girl behaviour though, not woman. I haven't done any of this since early years in high school. Could just be me, but honestly, when you have a life to run (whether work, friends or other responsibilities), you don't have time or energy to play this kind of stupid game (no offense to the OP). I hate it and will happily drop anyone who tries to play it with me bc I'm not looking to be a babysitter. So I like to say what I mean and mean what I say - diplomatically ofc - and it attracts my kind of people: those who say what they mean and mean what they say. Love life that way, keeps my peace so I can focus on building my world. I think as one matures and gets more confident in their identity, they become less afraid to speak their mind. Or maybe not everyone is like that. Either way, if you want to make the relationship work and you leave the other person guessing, it seems to me you want to be baby-d.

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Neibaf

3 days ago

INTP
Sagittarius

5w6

5

6

If a man says "hmm its okay" = it is If a man says "up to you" = it is If a man says "enjoy your time" = he means it, and thinks to himself he'll enjoy his time not enduring your passive-agressiveness. But if they just reply with emoticon it means "I don't know what else to add but I want to show that I paid attention" ...crazy how simple it can be πŸ™„

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Christian

3 days ago

INFP
Cancer

If they say "huh, ga bunga" = I want berries If they say "goonga clonk, clonk" = Stars bright tonight If they say "UUGH! GA BANDA!" = Look out for that roaming mammoth But if they just reply "πŸ—Ώ", then honey – it means you are in the year 50,000 BCE speaking with an archaic human Neanderthal.

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Mike

3 days ago

INTJ
Taurus

5w6

5

6

Thank you. Needed that.

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Josh

4 days ago

INFP
Taurus

6w7

6

7

I forgot about this passive agressive nonsense thanks for reminding me of another red flag, been out of the game for a minute and forgot about this one. The good news is that when you graduate to dating women vs girls they will speak their mind, 'cause this drove me nuts in my youth. I guess it all depends on what the person is looking for. I preferred a partner to a psychic, but to each their own.

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Petro

4 days ago

INFJ
Gemini

2w1

2

1

Who even wants to build a relationship with a liar?

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Wolfy 666

4 days ago

ESTP
Cancer

You forgot the worst one "its fine" = to hell with you, and dont try to remedy this.

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Jamie

4 days ago

ENFP
Leo

8w7

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'Its fine' does equal to hell with you. But it usually only comes after multiple attempts of trying getting your participation or help. By the time ahe is saying that, you likely deserve it

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Wolfy 666

4 days ago

ESTP
Cancer

Exactly

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Lynne

3 days ago

INTP
Gemini

Yes, it's more like...it doesn't matter what I say, you'll just do what you want to regardless of how I feel so I won't waste my breath. I realize now when it gets that bad it is time to leave.

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Michael Metzler

3 days ago

ENFP
Leo

7w8

7

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I just allow her to say smart aleck remarks and take it how it's fececiously intended to sound... Let it roll and they will end up catching onto the fact that the small stuff doesn't affect you.

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Danielle

3 days ago

ENFP
Sagittarius

3w4

3

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This is garbage.. plenty of people just say what they mean .

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Scott

4 days ago

INFJ
Virgo

Girl's secret is that they lie instead of communicating honestly? πŸ€”

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skyler behunin

4 days ago

ISTJ
Virgo

Why is there code? Why not just say im mad at you

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Lynne

3 days ago

INTP
Gemini

That can lead to all sorts of bad things, including spending lots of time explaining the problem just so he can say since it isn't a problem for him it isn't a problem. Over time women learn to say what they want to anyway and leave the ones who won't listen and watch their shocked Pikachu face when saying goodbye. So yeah, women should just say what they mean and also people should actually listen if they want the truth.

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Scott

3 days ago

ISTP
Gemini

1w9

1

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If being honest with him ends like you say then that's a relationship you shouldn't be in.

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