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Virginia

Virginia

2y

INFJ

Aries

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Does anyone ever feel a bit weird about liking someone's profile if they seem to be doing good in their life? For example, sometimes I see guys profiles and it says that their going to a really good university or have a really good job but I feel weird liking their profile, mainly because if something were to flourish from a relationship I would feel inadequate to be with someone so smart. I don't really know, I just want to see if anyone else feels the same way.

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Azy

Azy

2y

INFP

Gemini

ME !!!! I feel the same. I'm at the lowest point of my life right now, and seeing people thriving in their lives and being so smart really makes me insecure. Then I keep asking myself if I'm making any sense when talking to them. However on the bright side, it gives me motivation to improve my life. Even though we may feel inadequate in term of intelligent or career compares to some people, we have our own strength even it's as miniscule as giving comfort to other people. ☺

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Richie

Richie

2y

INTJ

Leo

At this point, I'm relying on success and wealth to get women to just pretend to like me

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Minnie

Minnie

2y

ESFP

Sagittarius

Im the opposite!! I only like profiles if the guy seems put together and happy with their life haha. Stability is so attractive to me !

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Justin

Justin

2y

ENFP

Aries

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It is natural to feel that way. But no one is always on top, and no one always at their best. You should seek out better for yourself, but should also expect to put your future improvements into the relationship.

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Gevork

Gevork

2y

ENFJ

Virgo

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The person you love should be someone you are proud of. Their success should be your success. If you brother or mother were to do well in their job or school, wouldn't you be proud?

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Marco Panama

Marco Panama

2y

ENFJ

Aquarius

2
1

I agree with you Virginia. I'm fortunate that at this point in my life I'm in a good place. Regardless, at times i still have the same fears you do. It comes with learning to be secure with yourself, and it's okay if you don't sometimes. It's the beautiful part of being human.

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