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Virginia
Posted Saturday, January 1, 2022
2y
INFJ
Aries
Question:
Does anyone ever feel a bit weird about liking someone's profile if they seem to be doing good in their life? For example, sometimes I see guys profiles and it says that their going to a really good university or have a really good job but I feel weird liking their profile, mainly because if something were to flourish from a relationship I would feel inadequate to be with someone so smart. I don't really know, I just want to see if anyone else feels the same way.
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Azy
2y
INFP
Gemini
ME !!!! I feel the same. I'm at the lowest point of my life right now, and seeing people thriving in their lives and being so smart really makes me insecure. Then I keep asking myself if I'm making any sense when talking to them. However on the bright side, it gives me motivation to improve my life. Even though we may feel inadequate in term of intelligent or career compares to some people, we have our own strength even it's as miniscule as giving comfort to other people. βΊ
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Minnie
2y
ESFP
Sagittarius
Im the opposite!! I only like profiles if the guy seems put together and happy with their life haha. Stability is so attractive to me !
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Marco Panama
2y
ENFJ
Aquarius
I agree with you Virginia. I'm fortunate that at this point in my life I'm in a good place. Regardless, at times i still have the same fears you do. It comes with learning to be secure with yourself, and it's okay if you don't sometimes. It's the beautiful part of being human.
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