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Posted Tuesday, March 21, 2023
1y
INTP
Just got grandfather-zoned ๐ถ
So I went on one online date with this girl I like last month. I wanted to go on more but she said she won't be able to anytime soon as she will be very busy in March due to a lot of cultural programs in her college and exams. We kept chatting all these days and yesterday she told me "you radiate warmth like my grandfather" and I seriously don't know what to feel. I do feel glad that at least I mean something to her. What do you guys think? Is there any chances of romance here? Or should I just give up. ๐ถ๐ Which will be hard because I have this feel good feeling about her that I just can't explain. I want to ask her out again but I don't know if I should. Thanks for reading all this. ๐
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Wow, some of the comments. First of all what she said is a compliment. What she told you is that she is busy in March which is not that long. With quite important stuff...college and exams. Her head/headspace is somewhere else. If I were in your shoes I would not add to the stress by asking for a Follow-up date, I would motivate her, encourage her and support her. To avoid grandfather-zoned, I assume that you have more traits to you than the radiate warmth. Next time show her more of the others. Maybe more adventure, more humours etc. (edited)
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1y
INFJ
Leo
Welcome to the grandfather zone, as if brother zone and friendzone were not enough ๐คฃ
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