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Posted Thursday, June 1, 2023
10mo
INFP
Virgo
Anyone ever feel like finding an open minded person who gives benefit of the doubt is hard? I feel like me working for what I want isn't enough and well... I don't know anyone who cares to see that I'm unique is good enough to them. Makes me wonder if putting in any effort is doing any good.
Apparently I'm cute but it feels like everyone thinks im not significant other material because I only have cute personality and that it's not enough I don't really know how to avoid the cute friend situation. But I guess that's inevitable because people don't see what can be instead of what my appearance is. I don't want pity just understanding and a chance to prove I'm just as good as any model or movie "eye candy" because I know I can be more but I'm never given the opportunity. Granted nobody owes me and I know and accept that but feels like everyone has commitment and trust issues. And well feels like nobody seems to be open to me no matter what or how hard I try. Feels like I'm lost in every other guy's shadow. And yes. It sounds silly but being together with someone is what makes me happy.im happy with me just not with being by myself. Had to go on a rant but if anyone understands and wants to chat I'm awake feel free. (edited)
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