Getting out of a toxic relationship

Question

So I've recently got out of a toxic relationship which when I became single was still loving with him, it then became domestic abuse.. verbally, and now I'm.just so unsure how to get out and interact with people now, it sounds silly I know, but how do you all get back out there meeting new people?

Ryan · Accepted Answer

You figure out what it means to really be you. You have to understand who you are outside of a relationship, and focus on what being in a relationship really means.  It doesn't mean stay alone and don't pursue relationships, but work on figuring out what a good and bad relationship looks like, and what thoughts about yourself are helpful or hurtful. It's definitely a process, but it's worth it, I promise.

Christopher · Answer

I'm pretty introverted so sites like this help alot

Himanshu · Answer

Get out of the room often. Good people are met by accident.

Angel · Answer

take your time to heal and all that~ but getting back out there is a process. schedule something amd stick to it. it may feel weird and synthetic but it'll at least normalize being social again to some degree.

Sean · Answer

Glad you got out of that toxicness. I'd say to give yourself time to mentally prepare for talking and meeting with people again. Then whenever the time feels right just send yourself out there and see what happens

Magikarp · Answer

Take your time to heal. Make sure your comfortable first before you start!

Kyle · Answer

It took me a long time. I was not ok for a very long time. I had to rebuild my entire sense of self, my confidence, my ability to even be around others. My only advice is not to rush anything. Just take things slow. All things.

Aditya · Answer

Just do it, try to talk to people and you'll learn as you go... Do it even if scared sometimes fear stops one from learning alot about themselves, you might be capable of more than you think.

Wayne · Answer

Take some time for urself first. Then slowly start in public settings

Thomas · Answer

One, don't rush out, love yourself and show yourself some self love they failed to. Two,  forget every abusive bull sh*t thing they told you that made you feel like you were isolated, you aren't what they tried to make you. Three, Remember who you were in past social events and gatherings, the good stuff and affirm it however you can. Solitude is good but don't isolate yourself hurting over someone who tried to tear you down.

Dee · Answer

You don't have to go out to meet people. Just take a walk, somewhere quiet. Look around, observe, find the little things around you. You'll feel the warmth in no time

Daryl · Answer

It's going to take some time for you to forget that type of toxicity and abuse. But there are good people in this world that if they care enough about you they will give you time. There is alot of understanding and considerate people in this world.🙏😊

Rachel · Answer

You focus on yourself first. Abuse, no matter what kind is mentally damaging. I suggest looking up Hobbies. Start doing things you enjoy at home first if you aren't comfortable going out. Figure out who you are without him. It's a process but within that process things will slowly get better. I have a lot of experience with mental, verbal and physical abuse unfortunately. Feel free to reach out if you'd like. 💜🖤

Nedu · Answer

I'm here for you

Stuart · Answer

Carry on doing exactly what you are now. You're putting yourself out there as we speak. Talk about things, get it off your chest, don't suffer in silence. And remember that's its okay to not be okay.

. · Answer

Toxic relationships are so hard to move on from. Because after you start comparing everyone else to them without even realizing you are doing it and people assume you are toxic bc of it. After I got out of my abusive relationship I focused on me. I blocked him and I told him off (which I've never done before) and it empowered me. Bc he didn't have control over my life and body anymore. But, I started to talk to my friends more openly and didn't worry about dating for months.

Boo · Answer

1. If you are experiencing domestic abuse you need to block all contact and get in touch with social services who will help you
2. You're in the right place
3. Be yourself and enjoy 😊

Randy · Answer

It took me 4 years to try again.....lots of damage done fam....for me its the drive to have a family and be a father

Elly · Answer

How long you've been out from toxic relationship? i managed to got out since 2015 and tell you what.. I'm still struggling to meet new friends or people. trust issue is really pain in the ass

Michael · Answer

To be honest it is always hardest for domestic abuse suffers to get back out there as they have even greater trust issues my advice is to take things slow,talk to people and develope a friendship network that u can rely on and if u find someone to love again take the time to get to know them and make sure that they r willing to be pacent with u cause of ur past

Maddie · Answer

I'm sorry to hear you went through that and am glad you got out of it. This would be a good time to just work on yourself and focus on your goals in life and improving yourself. Especially since it's so fresh. It also gives you time to think about who you are, establish what you want out of a relationship and how to prevent this from happening again 🙂

Majon · Answer

Self love and value and patience don't seek what comes naturally, distract your mind.

Deepti · Answer

Congratulations on getting out of toxic relationship. To come out of trauma, you need to get help and go to therapy cz emotional abuse can get into our subconscious mind and we start reeking it out in other relationships.

If you need a therapist, I am here for you.

Jason Evans · Answer

To be honest the exact same thing happened to me. I honestly havent even laughed in 3 yrs because of it. Never feeling like no matter how hard you tried nothing was ever good enough or everything you do was wrong. Im in the same boat so your not alone i have no idea what to do and im a single father

Mike · Answer

Get therapy and support from those you can trust. Simultaneously you can join local groups with relevant interests, volunteer, go to events and put yourself out there to meet people.

Stu · Answer

Im literally going through the same thing now im still unsure,  i definitely agree with do things that make you happy etc,  ive found eating completely different things meals lunch breakfast and snacks for example that i didnt eat or didnt make while i was in that relationship.  Keeping your self busy at work ive found has helped alot and ive been way more active in the good weather going out for rides on ny bike. So good luck!

Getting out of a toxic relationship

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I'm pretty introverted so sites like this help alot

Get out of the room often. Good people are met by accident.

take your time to heal and all that~ but getting back out there is a process. schedule something amd stick to it. it may feel weird and synthetic but it'll at least normalize being social again to some degree.

Glad you got out of that toxicness. I'd say to give yourself time to mentally prepare for talking and meeting with people again. Then whenever the time feels right just send yourself out there and see what happens

Take your time to heal. Make sure your comfortable first before you start!

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