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AJ

15d

INFP
Taurus
Separate Togetherness

Would you be content to have a long term or life long romantic relationship with someone without ever having the potential to cohabitate? Would you agree to all of the components of a partnership, still enjoying one another's company, physical, mental, and emotional intimacy when you're spending time together but continue to maintain your separate spaces and expenses?

Yes; I would be fine living separately.

No; I want someone next to me every night.

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Mr. Unconventional

15d

ENTP
Libra

8w7

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7

I feel this question is tough as while single it's easier to say Yes, and while with someone you are crazy about its easier to say no. & Vice versa of course What was you answer btw AJ? 🤔

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AJ

15d

INFP
Taurus

I always joke that I'll get married if I find someone who's willing to live next door. 😁

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Viva

14d

INTJ
Aries

4w5

4

5

@AJ Or at least have a separate bathroom. And a guest room for when I need to be alone. But I'd be good with someone who is willing to have separate bathrooms and a spare room hahaha.

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AJ

14d

INFP
Taurus

@Viva It's the bedroom for me. I don't get it. We beg for our own bedrooms as kids, we finally get out on our own and live alone, but then we get married or partnered and we get demoted to sharing a bedroom, bed, and closet again? Why? It's less comfortable and we have to accommodate our partner's sleep habits, multiple alarms, and snoring. We are supposed to upgrade as we get older and build our success. This doesn't check out for me.

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Viva

14d

INTJ
Aries

4w5

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5

@AJ I don't disagree. That's what the spare room is for 🙂 who knows when you might need it. But yea why not have your own rooms. It's a good plan. It's good to have your own space. But I wouldnt want a separate house if I'm going to build a life with someone, because I know me, I stay busy doing my own thing and I'm not good at maintaining something that isn't a part of my everyday. Plus I want to come home to my best friend/person.

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Aaron

15d

ENTP
Leo

9w1

9

1

To me, if it's a partner I want forever, I'd like to have that physical intimacy, being able to be near each other even if we aren't doing anything. Without living together, it will always only feel like dating

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Mouayed

14d

ESTP
Scorpio

it depends but eventually the couple need to be together under same roof

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Jon

15d

INFJ
Leo

2w3

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That's a tough one to answer. I want to say no, but lately I've been so busy that it doesn't matter if there was cohabitation. Also if there is a break up separating the household is very hard on each other.

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Colin

14d

INTJ
Taurus

5w4

5

4

This is a difficult question to answer. I like the maintaining of separate spaces and expenses, but I also love the idea of living in the same space. So why not both? Alternating between each other's homes, but living together through all of it, save when space is truly needed. That I can get behind! 🥰

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Jon

15d

ENFP
Cancer

2w3

2

3

Absolutely not. If I'm not working to share my life with someone I'm actually wasting time.

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Dan

15d

INFP
Taurus

2w3

2

3

In an open relationship, sure

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Derek

15d

INFP
Capricorn

1w2

1

2

My and my gf have each their own house but i spend a lot of time in hers

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Phobytoby

14d

INFP
Leo

Part of meeting my emotional needs is being able to come home and go to sleep next to that person, knowing that the safety is as close to me as it can be, every night, in my arms

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shydevine93

14d

INFJ
Gemini

yes and no

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Ahmad

14d

ISFP
Cancer

2w1

2

1

Sounds like the perfect setup

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Edward

13d

INTJ
Scorpio

9w1

9

1

I would love to cohabitate. But I'm a pragmatist- I honestly don't see it happening. :/

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fox4snce

15d

INFP
Taurus

6w7

6

7

Once this divorce is done, even if I could find someone who wanted to spend time with me I dont think I'd want to live together. I'm just not fit for something like that.

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