Brandon

1y

INFJ

Virgo

6

7

Sweet lady you can't fix anybody. The one thing that you can do though is know you and fix you. Once you're able to understand yourself and love yourself truly love yourself which is a lot harder than people think. Then I think by default the people that you attract and are attracted to are already on the same level as you and you don't have to deal with someone that has a bunch of check baggage. I've taken the last 3 years and stayed single no anything and that's hard. But I had to understand why I wasn't happy in the relationships I was in how come they always ended and why in the hell I ended up with these narcissistic crazy ass women Knowing damn well that they were bad and unhealthy for a relationship. The answer is it's because how I viewed myself so I took the time to do some real work looked on the inside deep and I found this person that I have grown to love and I know the monster that is in there I shook it in became friends with it and understand that it's my choice to let that out and it's also my choice to let love out. I take care of myself now because I am so worth it. The secret to this is you are too you just got to find that out