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Universes
Posted Wednesday, August 14, 2024
1mo
ISFP
Libra
I'm starting to think that there's just something about me that I'm not aware of that causes women to keep me at distance. Sure, I don't have a super indulgent or overly-lavish life or anything like that, but something about my personality people don't like.
Maybe they think I am too nice. Maybe I'm intimidating (I don't see how but who knows?) Maybe they read my posts and see something very dark that I'm not aware of about myself. Or, maybe they think I'm completely fake - it's possible. Maybe they see me as needy or unexciting. Whatever it is, I'd like to have some clarity for once so I know at least where I stand with them. Sure, I'd really like to have someone in my life, and perhaps I am quite touch-starved, but that's not going to bring me peace. Maybe I shouldn't feel like I want those things? Be honest with me, here. What is it about me that keeps women away? I'm looking for perspectives so that I can reflect. I won't respond, I'll just keep everyone's comments in mind - read my Bio (or my posts/comments) and see if there's something there.
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Jennifer
1mo
INFJ
Capricorn
If you were 10 years older and lived closer to me then I'd be interested. 🙂 Personally, I think it's great that you have a detailed biography and a lot of pictures. You're a good looking guy and have a variety of interests. All these things are very attractive in my opinion. I don't think it's you, I just don't think there are too many people on this app from smaller cities. Ive been searching myself for quite some time. Good luck!
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Josh
1mo
INTJ
Virgo
You seem like a great fella from what I see. I'm in a similar boat when it comes to feeling like I'm too nice or too plain o le not exciting enough. All the girls I dated over my time 9/10 cheated and told me it was cuz I was boring. I just decided I'll be single till someone comes along to appreciate the drama free and peaceful life I got. It can be hard some days but I've grown to like solitude. I know that nobody is gonna start drama and that's how I like it
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