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Universes
Posted Tuesday, September 20, 2022
2y
ENFP
Scorpio
Ladies, Is Chivalry Dead?
Do you appreciate doors being opened, your date walking street-side, offering to pay for a date etc.? Or is it outdated and offensive?
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Kathleen
2y
INTJ
Leo
Totally alive :3 Communicate, offer nice things, but don't shove them on someone, because then the nice things come off as annoying, or might feel patronizing, not nice. Intention vs effect. Do it because you want to, not because you think you have to, or because you want something out of the exchange. The difference is often more noticeable than you might realize, and makes a big difference in the reaction. It's "it makes me happy to do this for you" VS "I'm obligated to do this because I'm a dude" And if your getting a negative reaction, maybe consider the WAY you're doing it. For example; Cutting in front of someone to open the door is just gonna make someone wana step on the backs of your heels out of sheer spite. A polite, "Let me get that for you" or something THEN if they're cool with it cutting in front of them to get the door if someone's carrying something, or holding the door when you were in front to begin with feels more thoughtful, and considerate. And if you're gonna play gallant, treat everyone that way. Opening a car door for a lady was big before specifically because 1: the doors used to need to be manually unlocked on each side, and 2: opening the door for exit is from carriage days because heels and tiny carriage steps=need help down or maybe face plant into the dirt. Hitting the electric unlock button, and trying not to park in a puddle is now basically the same thing, it's just not flashy. And the difference in tech makes for a difference in what's potentially awkward. So perhaps consider that too :3 And keep in mind some chick's like to do that stuff too because it makes em happy. So let them enjoy being nice and protective sometimes too! :D
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Virgo
I would still love that
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