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Ryan

4 days ago

INFP
Scorpio
I dont get it

Why is it when a woman wants a nice guy, and a guy actually shows hes a nice guy, treats her like gold, like a goddess, but they still go back to the abusive ex they were just venting to you about?

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Ajay

4 days ago

INTP
Cancer

The actions of a woman cannot be comprehended with logic and reasoning.

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0soz3

4 days ago

ISTP
Cancer

6w5

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Nice guys are boring.

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Ryan

4 days ago

INFP
Scorpio

I dont see how taking a woman out on regular dates, dancing, movies, beach trips, road trips, hikes in the wilderness, quality time talking about the future, random flower and chocolate surprises, checking up on them, letting them know you only have eyes for them, taking them to a theme park, a water park, and anything else that comes about, as boring... what i find boring, is men degrading a woman, men making a woman feel like they're not worth anyones time, men treating a woman like a replaceable object rather than a rare emerald that is hard to find. Men who beat a woman, men who mentally abuse them to the point they want to kill them selves. Thats boring and pathetic

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Mello

4 days ago

INTP
Virgo

9w1

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Really couldn’t say it better myself

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Kenneth Lim

4 days ago

ENFJ
Libra

1w9

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Also, correction, no woman wants a nice guy. Every woman wants to feel protected and most of the time the rough abusive guy has more of that vibe than the nice guy. In case you needed the elaboration :)

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Ryan

4 days ago

INFP
Scorpio

I defended her against that dude, i take mma classes for self defense if need be, ive shown more than once that i can protect her, that dude is a wuss in all standards... he was talking about meeting up and he never showed... hes all bark no bite

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Mello

4 days ago

INTP
Virgo

9w1

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I used to be like that but the nice guy you talk about were mostly love bombers in my situation, however someone like me with abusive history, would most likely want to be with someone who would hurt them because that’s what we all experienced and that’s how feel safe, another situation is when girl think they can make these guys become a better person and by that they fall in love with them?!, like when they say “I can fix him” lol, some other might find excitement in dating these guys because ngl some nice guys are so boring, also any guy who says they’re nice are a 🚩.

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Ryan

4 days ago

INFP
Scorpio

What about the guys who actually stick to there word?

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Mello

4 days ago

INTP
Virgo

9w1

9

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I’m dating one rn and it’s wonderful<3 he’s not boring and he’s patient with me so W

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Ryan

4 days ago

INFP
Scorpio

Congratulations! I just wish a girl could see me in that light, im not the best at patience i wont lie, i see a message or a call im instantly replying or answering, but, i think thats because i didn't give attention to my ex's in highschool i was always gaming and ignoring them, so over the years i just felt like i needed to show more effort lol

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Mello

4 days ago

INTP
Virgo

9w1

9

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Well it’s reversed in my situation he does not rush me to respond and he knows how much I love my lonely space, he sees me like the most beautiful human being and does not stop praising me on everything I do when he gets a chance<3 I hope you find someone like that

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Ryan

4 days ago

INFP
Scorpio

I hope so too cause, it seems like a never ending battle, i find a girl it goes great, then next thing i know im back to finding another

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Victor

4 days ago

ISTJ
Aries

I think I know that answer to that Ryan....some woman man just love that life style sadly.... I was firjend-Zone by this woman it was tough ?

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Ryan

4 days ago

INFP
Scorpio

I was dating a woman, and she was telling me how she was falling for me, into me, talking about houses, wedding dresses, the works... then all of a sudden she had the realization she wasn't ready, then mentioned that her and her ex who was mentally abusive who i defended her against, were going to try and make things work... this dude is manipulating in all ways possible, he would straight say he was going to kill himself if she didn't answer, knowing shes a easy target for things like that. He cheated on her, he gets black out drunk and screams at her then denies everything and says its her fault, and she still wants to make it work with him...

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Kimberly

4 days ago

INTP
Aquarius

1w9

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They probably don't think they deserve better.

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Ryan

4 days ago

INFP
Scorpio

Everyone deserves better 😔

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Kenneth Lim

4 days ago

ENFJ
Libra

1w9

1

9

Social and media conditioning

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Colton

3 days ago

ENTJ
Gemini

It normally stems from their childhood trauma. If they were in a household with constant yelling and fighting they tend to have anxiety when things are calm or seem normal. It almost feels as though something bad is about to happen because their brain can't handle being relaxed and they have to put themselves back into the other environment to feel calm again because that's what the brain has known for so long. Obviously there's a lot more to it but this is a pretty good logical explanation I've read in the past over it..

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Victor

4 days ago

ISTJ
Aries

Yeah.... it can be... It’s the best when you meet good peope on here....

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Ryan

4 days ago

INFP
Scorpio

Well i hope to meet good people on here, all i want is positive energy in my life. You seem cool so ill add ya

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Victor

4 days ago

ISTJ
Aries

Oh wow... bro I am sorry you went thur that.... she rather go with someone who pressured her.... instead of being with you.... Remember my friend... you didn’t do nothing wrong... she is the one with screw loose

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Victor

4 days ago

ISTJ
Aries

Awww thank you bro... yeah I am fed up with the toxic people on here who keep.... ruining it... but my goal on here is to be nice to people on here..spread goodness

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James

4 days ago

INTP
Aquarius

Honestly. I read all the replies and it comes down to you not holding to your standards. As A man you have to be firm on what you believe in and if you think that she's exhibiting behavior that you think is bad choice then tell her so and cut her off and move on. If you have interest in this girl and she's not choosing you, then don't choose her. You don't need that in your life.

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