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Carla

14d

INFJ
Gemini

1w2

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2

When I fall in love, I fall hard, but VERY SLOW. I take things slowly because I want to make sure things are right and we are a good match.

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Doug

14d

INTP
Taurus

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Doug

14d

INTP
Taurus

But seriously, I completely agree, and it's how it should be.

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1

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Samuel

14d

ENFP
Capricorn

7w8

7

8

I approve of this gif

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0

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Carla

14d

INFJ
Gemini

1w2

1

2

@Doug Hahaha 😂 exactly what it looks like

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0

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Tim

14d

INFP
Aquarius

6w5

6

5

This gif feels like me after all the deception of my ex.. took it slow looking towards a beautiful future.. boy was I blindsided.

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0

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Neibaf

14d

INTP
Sagittarius

5w6

5

6

Sounds like falling into a black hole, taking forever to get there and then get crushed :l

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Tim

14d

INFP
Aquarius

6w5

6

5

Definitely hurts more the better they are at deceiving you for longer.

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Neibaf

14d

INTP
Sagittarius

5w6

5

6

@Tim I'm aware of that, I'm still stuck behind the event horizon :/

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Tim

14d

INFP
Aquarius

6w5

6

5

@Neibaf Hard to get out when that black hole was filled with such beautifully heavy promises. You place all hope in it. The weight of that hope adds to the mass which pulls you back from escape. It's crazy how love requires you to blindly leap into the darkness with faith that someone is who they say they are, and will give you the same love you intent to give them. More often then not, the people we place our faith in are not who we believe them to be.

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2

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Neibaf

14d

INTP
Sagittarius

5w6

5

6

@Tim Yeah, and sometimes they mean to be at first, but they collapse under their own pressure and become the very opposite :/

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1

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Tim

14d

INFP
Aquarius

6w5

6

5

@Neibaf You can spend a lot of time trying to reassure them, being there for them, and trying to fix things but sometimes you have to accept their excuses and pushing you away for what it is: their way out. Don't spend so much time like me working on the puzzle to solve an unsolvable equations.. but I know thats easier said than done. The puzzle always feels like the way out of the hole.

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1

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Neibaf

14d

INTP
Sagittarius

5w6

5

6

@Tim You're completely right, I came to the same conclusion. Too bad it was to late for me, my social life took a huge hit, and recovering one from scratch it goddamn hard at my age, so imagine trying to find love again in such context -_-'

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Tim

14d

INFP
Aquarius

6w5

6

5

@Neibaf This impossibility is something I face everyday. Can't really do much but hope.

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Neibaf

14d

INTP
Sagittarius

5w6

5

6

@Tim This quote is something I try to live by every day. Not easy but usually better than the alternative of turning into someone too toxic to stay around (which I learnt the hard way too). Let's hope it gets better for both of us at some point. Bro-fist! 🤜🤛

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0

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Ioana

13d

INFJ
Gemini

6w5

6

5

@Tim It is also us who deceive ourselves and give in to our delusions of hope, of how perfect someone is and how they will make everything fine which is not true. The longer we cling the more it will crush us when things don't work out. It's a tricky thing to escape if you are prone to it :(

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1

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Tim

13d

INFP
Aquarius

6w5

6

5

@Ioana The thing is, that it is very easy to be that person for someone who sees you this way and puts all of their effort and affection into you.. the only thing required to maintain this is effort on your part, care, and a desire to be that person. When someone has deceived you and has decided they no longer want to be the person they made themselves out to be, for any reason whether they decided they want someone else or they decided you aren't enough or they simply got bored.. this is their abandonment of you. They have become someone else, they have deceived you and there is no way to repair that. Sometimes the lengths they went through to deceive you will be the measure for their malice. Truth and honesty are always better than building yourself up to someone and promising them the world to change your mind later..

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Ioana

13d

INFJ
Gemini

6w5

6

5

@Tim I know that feeling I have been through that. It is what it is. It sounds like you went through same. I am sorry

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Zoey

14d

ENTP
Taurus

9w1

9

1

I agree! I'm also a slow burn kind of person. I never understood how people feel "sparks" and/or head over heels for people that they don't know. I can't fall in love with someone without knowing who they fundamentally are. I need to know a person in and out. I need to know and see their character, how reliable they are, etc. Getting to know someone on that level takes time through observation.

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Tim

14d

INFP
Aquarius

6w5

6

5

Yet they can still turn into someone else you hardly recognize overnight. It's always a risk if you ask me. Trust is built brick by brick, but someone can choose to burn that trust down overnight. People will always become discontent and decide someone else can offer them more.

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Zoey

14d

ENTP
Taurus

9w1

9

1

@Tim Of course. Any interpersonal relationship with another person comes with risks because the other person can change their mind at any time.

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Omar

14d

ENTP
Pisces

9w1

9

1

My problem is that I fall hard and fast

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5

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Carla

14d

INFJ
Gemini

1w2

1

2

Rough landing! Take it slower (:

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Omar

14d

ENTP
Pisces

9w1

9

1

@Carla 😂 I'll try my best

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1

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Carla

14d

INFJ
Gemini

1w2

1

2

@Omar Haha yeah, get to know the person until you can see who they are more clearly.

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1

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Omar

14d

ENTP
Pisces

9w1

9

1

@Carla Yep, already happened once to me

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Carla

14d

INFJ
Gemini

1w2

1

2

@Omar Hopefully next time it’s permanent (:

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0

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Cody

14d

INFJ
Taurus

1w2

1

2

This is the way

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Carla

14d

INFJ
Gemini

1w2

1

2

Yessir! (:

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Paul

14d

INTJ
Aries

like a dial up connection

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1

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Carla

14d

INFJ
Gemini

1w2

1

2

Yes! Haha

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0

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Daniel

14d

INFP
Capricorn

2w3

2

3

@Carla How do you keep them from losing interest or mistaking your slow pace as disinterest?

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1

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Tim

14d

INFP
Aquarius

6w5

6

5

You don't want those paranoid ones. But I acknowledge they definitely exist. More of a headache than anything..

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AquaticBoneZ

13d

INFJ
Aquarius

I hear you. Same here... but sometimes... things are not what you think... you think they are perfect... you both understand each other... had plans... then they just leave... and you are lost and confused... putting back your broken self back together... welp... I'm done with that, so good bye love life, and welcome to being proud and single!

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0

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Raja Usman

13d

INFJ
Capricorn

Means u think too much even in love

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1

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Carla

13d

INFJ
Gemini

1w2

1

2

I certainly do and should

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Dhalz

13d

ISFJ
Scorpio

9w1

9

1

We are in the same thinking

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Branden

13d

ENFP
Gemini

4w5

4

5

I fall fast so that when it doesn't work out I can move on quickly

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Carla

13d

INFJ
Gemini

1w2

1

2

So you fall fast and move on quickly. That makes sense

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Branden

12d

ENFP
Gemini

4w5

4

5

@Carla I mean, not ideally, but yeah

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Carla

12d

INFJ
Gemini

1w2

1

2

@Branden Yeah, it doesn’t seem like a good thing

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Steven

13d

INFP
Virgo

So like drowning in molasses? Slow, sweet, and sticky. Also impossible to wash off.

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0

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Minnow

13d

ENTP
Pisces

Right or wrong it's a matter .... Matter is right or wrong just think and do it 🔁 repeat daily

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0

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Veera

13d

ESTJ
Gemini

You are right so what’s wrong in that ?

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0

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Maan

13d

INTJ
Sagittarius

There's no other way to find someone who really meant to be with you 😊

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Alex

14d

ESFP
Pisces

This is the way

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0

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Stellar

14d

ENTJ
Gemini

3w4

3

4

babe,we are the same!

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Andrew Wells

13d

INFP
Scorpio

A slow hard fall. Anviling. Do you keep it hush hush or do you give hints? Oh your sweet "I am hungry" or more like try to slowly lead him in right direction. Also what's your definition of slow? Longer to do it or move in? Cuz I'd say if you want to know if a guys right live with him a week or two and poof mystery solved. Plus you could talk to his exes it's legal and there must be a reason if multiple say same things yup...

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Jay

14d

INFJ
Libra

9w1

9

1

Yes!! 🤩 perfect!!

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