Levente

Posted March 31, 2023

INTJ
Gemini

5w4

5

4

Tired of being a nice guy

Why do I feel like woman only want one thing, and doesn't matter who gives it to them? I always cared about my health, my looks, my career yet a high school drop out pizza delivery guy still had more fun. I feel like when girls grow up and become more mature they want a nice guy like me, but that is so unfair. I always waited for the one, but realized it's just a fairy tale that doesn't exist. I feel like I need to go out and break some hearts, thoughts?

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Logan

2mo

INTJ
Libra

4w5

4

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Nothing you do or any of your qualities ever mean that someone owes you a relationship. People want what they want. Being hung up on it and growing hateful towards a group of people instead of working on your confidence and leaning into your hobbies to grow as a person is only going to make it all worse. If you’ll be happiest dating around then do that, if you want to find a life partner then go out and talk to people and be the best version of yourself for when you meet her. Worst case, you can still say you tried until the end instead of giving in to bitterness.

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Nick

2mo

ISFJ
Virgo

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Yunior R.

2mo

INTJ
Taurus

Very young, yet very smart and a lot of common sense. Best Comment bro... keep it up!

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Nabeel

2mo

INTP
Leo

2w1

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1

don't generalize billions of people over your personal experience, lotta women love nice men

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Levente

2mo

INTJ
Gemini

5w4

5

4

Unfortunately I always generalize people in my head and judge them to a certain category.

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Nabeel

2mo

INTP
Leo

2w1

2

1

@Levente that's great! now since you've identified this behaviour you can go onto step 2 which is stopping

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Levente

2mo

INTJ
Gemini

5w4

5

4

@Nabeel 💀

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Feisty momma

2mo

ENTP
Aries

6w7

6

7

@Levente Good Luck stay on the high road..it's less traveled but the ones you meet are Quality people 👌 just remember ..Judgement is a two edged sword ..as well as our tongues.

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Maddie

2mo

ESTP
Capricorn

7w8

7

8

I’d be happy to know you, you’re really cute 🥰

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Yunior R.

2mo

INTJ
Taurus

I would suggest you text him directly if you haven't.

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Maddie

2mo

ESTP
Capricorn

7w8

7

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@Yunior R. Thnx

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Peach McGuffin

2mo

INTP
Taurus

6w7

6

7

You have never turn away any woman who has shown interest in you?

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Levente

2mo

INTJ
Gemini

5w4

5

4

I turned almost all of them down if they stood in the way of my goals

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Peach McGuffin

2mo

INTP
Taurus

6w7

6

7

@Levente why say they don't want you? What you mean is, you haven't found someone you want?

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Yunior R.

2mo

INTJ
Taurus

Only by reviewing your profile can I detect the problem. You just have so much free time. In addition to working and studying, one or more hobbies would be very good for you.

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Levente

2mo

INTJ
Gemini

5w4

5

4

Maybe you are right, I am so bored and want to show myself to the world but also don't really want to go out and be in toxic places with toxic people around me. But I see those places the only way I can meet people my age.

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Yunior R.

2mo

INTJ
Taurus

@Levente maybe travelling to another country could also help... that way you can see different things. But, forget not to get yourself a hobby that you really love.

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Atalja

2mo

INFP
Taurus

3w4

3

4

All I can say is you need to find someone who you know that you know will always be with you. And that is hard 2 find. But it will come your way.

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Chris

2mo

ISFJ
Virgo

4w3

4

3

Join the club brother I'm right there with you, why not just become the monster they paint us out to be and give them a taste of their own medicine

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Chris

2mo

ISFJ
Scorpio

Keep your head up bro, she's out there

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Petro

2mo

INFJ
Gemini

2w1

2

1

The choice is yours. Do, what you feel is right. "Be someone, you love and understand" :)

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Tanuj Mohindra

2mo

ISFJ
Capricorn

Being Nice Is Always Good And Positive

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ipam

2mo

ENFP
Aquarius

6w7

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Mei 🌷🌷🌷🌷

2mo

INTJ
Gemini

Lol🤣

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Bhavesh

2mo

ISFJ
Cancer

9w1

9

1

Nah just focus on ur journey, some people can deceive u by showing they have nice lives. Also u cared about your health, looks, career for yourself. If u did it for girls, then ur whole mindset is wrong and u will end up hurting yourself. Those pizza guys are maybe being themselves.

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Rin

2mo

ESFP
Cancer

6w5

6

5

When you get older you will notice that woman won't look at the pizza guys, but to man who has "more" 😉

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Romanoff

2mo

INTJ
Leo

2w1

2

1

Sounds like you've made up your mind. Have fun!

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Theadore

2mo

INTP
Sagittarius

9w1

9

1

Just be yourself @levente I went through the exact thing

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