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Jay

Jay

9mo

INTP

Gemini

Advice needed

When I like somebody , I cannot stop complimenting them , whether it's the looks or behavior traits. It makes them happy and I feel good as well. When should I really stop ? I feel I am overdoing it sometimes.

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ESTJ

If they don't like it, stop or slow down

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Jo

Jo

9mo

ISTP

Taurus

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Let them know your love language is Words of Affirmation, that explains a lot. Just don't fall in love with someone who doesn't appreciate it.

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Exotic Eyez

Exotic Eyez

9mo

ESFP

Aries

If your compliments are aimed at a person you have a romantic interest in, I will say it is possible to go overboard. Personally, a man complimenting me on my looks doesn't do much for me. Many men think I am supposed to be flattered as if they are the first man ever in my life to tell me I am attractive. Compliments on physical appearance lose their luster when you hear them so often. It's also a bit superficial to ONLY focus on a person's looks instead of trying to get to know them on a deeper level. Yes, physical attraction is important, but once it has been established you are attracted to them, you move on to discuss their other interests. If the only thing you have to say to that person repeatedly throughout a conversation is how beautiful you think they are, that will get old quick, and that person will probably lose interest and disengage from the conversation. A person doesn't earn brownie points by complimenting my physical appearance. It means more to me when I have someone compliment me on my intelligence and articulation. Of course, this is my perspective. Some women probably enjoy having dozens of people compliment them on their beauty all day, every day. 🤷‍♀️ For me, I find those compliments boring, and sometimes annoying because I think, "Okay, you think I'm attractive, that was already a given, but what ELSE do you like about me??" 🤷‍♀️ I am a person with feelings, thoughts, goals and aspirations. I want to know that someone really wants to get to know me and like me for who I am, not just for how I look. That is very tough to find, and probably explains why I haven't been on a date in almost 2 years, since July 2021, but I digress....😔 (edited)

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