Posted Tuesday, January 14, 2025
1y
ENFP
Cancer
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4I’m convinced the good guys are taken. Many of our generation say they want commitment or a life partner yet action and words prove otherwise. Where are the authentic, honest, loyal men out there?
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Jacob
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INTP
Taurus
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Chris
1y
ISTJ
Gemini
We have been told you choose the bear and don’t need us and we are creeps and shouted down at every moment any of us spoke up about our issues so most work go home and keep to themselves because its not worth it anymore this may not be you or your fault but no women hold the others accountable the bad actors who have the loudest voices i truly feel for those women out there whom have nothing to do with this nonsense but most good men are tired it is what it is
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Andrew
1y
ISTJ
Virgo
They exist. They are also probably just as frustrated and burned out as you are with the dating world. Hope you find a worthwhile person!
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Sebastian
1y
ENFJ
Taurus
In my case, I have been burned so badly I had no choice but to focus on healing. Now that that stage of my life is over I’m focused on reclamation. I don’t have the emotional capacity to focus on much more than fighting to be in my sons life. I honestly wish I could focus on finding love again but to remain “authentic, loyal and honest” I must continue my struggles alone.
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Anita
1y
INTJ
Libra
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Andrew
1y
INTJ
Libra
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3Authentic, honest and loyal? We're ulgy or staying away or trying to heal because we were loyal when our partner wasn't. But I hope you find what you're looking for.
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Josiah
1y
INFP
Virgo
I feel the same way about women. I think they're out there-- we just have to find each other
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Isaiah
1y
ISTJ
Virgo
I can say I'm one of them but I haven't got any likes or messages idk if it's me or idk..🫤
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Ali
1y
ESTJ
oh if you were a lesbian....🌷
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Daniel
1y
INTJ
I agree with Razan, I think that good guys don't expose themselves a lot because they want to know the person first and then they will decide if they want just a friendship or a romantic relationship
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Terrence
1y
ENTJ
Aquarius
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4We are around we are just extremely picky on who we are spending our time with and why. I’ve found this creates a lot of issues, but it protects my peace. The good ones are just harder to find.
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Jade
1y
INFJ
Virgo
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7I hate to say this, but most likely they aren’t on a dating app lol at least that’s been my experience
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Dhrubo
1y
ENTP
Scorpio
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5I mean good guys are everywhere it's just the bad ones are more noticeable since people usually remember bad experiences more than good ones
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Marie
1y
INFJ
Taurus
There are good men still out there! I know be cause I married one. Unfortunately, he passed....
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Brian
1y
INFJ
Scorpio
The "good guys" you're trying to refer to rarely ever get noticed and are even less taken seriously. Many "good guys" don't even try online dating because its very well known that its an empty experience at best and heartbreaking experience at worst. It's genuinely depressing and its hard to keep bringing your own A game when you're constantly treated like dirt.
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David W
1y
INFJ
Sagittarius
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Ed
1y
INTP
Libra
We've been here waiting, It's just this world has not given hope to guys like us anymore. Cuz of everything that has happened, we normally choose a life of solitude a life of confinement or even a life of self-development cuz nobody wanted to choose us even from the beginning what life happens and they decide to leave over trivial situations. But we are not gone. We've just decided to do something else until the time comes that we try or do again
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Sean
1y
INFP
Sagittarius
87
7Dont give up hope! One might actually be right around the corner! 👀😅 we're in the same boat for sure
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Adelé
1y
INTJ
Leo
No because who leads someone one for 3 months making them believe they love them and then leaves after promising a relationship to go be with more women
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Zach Jackson
1y
INTJ
Sagittarius
"All the good guys are taken." -> "Only the taken guys are good." This unfortunate bias feeds the cheating culture. SMH Don't focus just on the guy who immediately catches your eye. Your eyes are not the only ones on him, and he will be tempted to cheat. Give some thought to the purpose of dating; making personal connections. Date more guys casually, and see if their personality starts to grow on you. Even if you don't feel a spark, some of them might become friends worth keeping.
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Ami
1y
ISTP
Aquarius
Technically speaking, there are no good guys or bad guys; there's only good and bad actions. What may seem bad from your POV, others may look at it as good. A guy who had cheated multiple times when he was dating his ex-girlfriend, may remain loyal to you in relationship. Stop looking for the good ones. Love the person to your fullest potential. If that doesn't make him loyal to you, nothing else will.
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Nicolas
1y
INTJ
Capricorn
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