I’m convinced the good guys are taken. Many of our generation say they want commitment or a life partner yet action and words prove otherwise. Where are the authentic, honest, loyal men out there?

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Razan

4mo

INTP

Virgo

I'd say the good guys are still out there, the not so good ones are just the loudest, unfortunately.

Jacob

4mo

INTP

Taurus

Authentic and loyal guys? Probably chillin’ somewhere not trying to prove it on dating apps. The real ones don’t flash neon signs; they’re too busy living their lives without all the drama. Maybe it's less about finding them and more about spotting them in the wild without all the background noise.

Chris

4mo

ISTJ

Gemini

We have been told you choose the bear and don’t need us and we are creeps and shouted down at every moment any of us spoke up about our issues so most work go home and keep to themselves because its not worth it anymore this may not be you or your fault but no women hold the others accountable the bad actors who have the loudest voices i truly feel for those women out there whom have nothing to do with this nonsense but most good men are tired it is what it is

Andrew

4mo

ISTJ

Virgo

They exist. They are also probably just as frustrated and burned out as you are with the dating world. Hope you find a worthwhile person!

Sebastian

4mo

ENFJ

Taurus

In my case, I have been burned so badly I had no choice but to focus on healing. Now that that stage of my life is over I’m focused on reclamation. I don’t have the emotional capacity to focus on much more than fighting to be in my sons life. I honestly wish I could focus on finding love again but to remain “authentic, loyal and honest” I must continue my struggles alone.

John

4mo

INTP

Maybe don't filter your matches by pseudoscientific mbti types.

Grashopa

4mo

ISTJ

Cancer

Hidden away in our ugly bodies. Sorry.

Anita

4mo

INTJ

Libra

Oh, they're out there... We just have to ask ourselves, how are WE limiting ourselves? What qualities do we want in a man that we lack, or are working towards? Look for a partner who can support you wholeheartedly because you accept the entirety of you-- not for someone who can be your other half.

Jerry

4mo

ENTJ

Virgo

We are a dying breed. Societies hookup culture has ruined both sides of the aisle.

Hank

4mo

INFJ

Leo

You swiped them left or you didnt swipe me right yet

Jarrett

4mo

INTP

Leo

I wonder how many DM’s she got after posting this lol

Josiah

4mo

INFP

Virgo

I feel the same way about women. I think they're out there-- we just have to find each other

MaTou

4mo

ESFJ

Aquarius

Good guys are married . Great guys are heartbroken.

BlaccCasper

4mo

INFP

Capricorn

You're just giving the wrong men a chance

Isaiah

4mo

ISTJ

Virgo

I can say I'm one of them but I haven't got any likes or messages idk if it's me or idk..🫤

Ali

4mo

ESTJ

oh if you were a lesbian....🌷

Jean

4mo

INTP

Taurus

Ironically I have the same issue and belief for women. No luck in my country it seems.

Daniel

4mo

INTJ

I agree with Razan, I think that good guys don't expose themselves a lot because they want to know the person first and then they will decide if they want just a friendship or a romantic relationship

Rafael Alarcon

4mo

ISTJ

Aquarius

I would ask the same question. About women. It's crazy out there now.

Terrence

4mo

ENTJ

Aquarius

We are around we are just extremely picky on who we are spending our time with and why. I’ve found this creates a lot of issues, but it protects my peace. The good ones are just harder to find.

Mia

4mo

ENFP

Aries

I feel the same way as a fellow ENFP. But also like I may be a tad picky lol 😂

Andrew

4mo

INTJ

Libra

Authentic, honest and loyal? We're ulgy or staying away or trying to heal because we were loyal when our partner wasn't. But I hope you find what you're looking for.

Stephen

4mo

ESTJ

Pisces

Authentic, honest, loyal partners (men and women, both) have been beaten down by a society that values hedonistic pursuits above all else. They exist, but they're difficult to find on purpose.

Steven

4mo

ENFP

Virgo

Good guys always get passed for the bad boys and end up being friend zoned. Like I get it we are the best of friends. But sometimes we want more than that especially if we connect on so much more

Ken

4mo

ISTP

Virgo

Rare and hard to find nowadays. Most of us tend to stay hidden so we don't get hurt. Just my opinion on that one.

Dhrubo

4mo

ENTP

Scorpio

I mean good guys are everywhere it's just the bad ones are more noticeable since people usually remember bad experiences more than good ones

Sebastian Gonzalez

4mo

INFP

Pisces

We good guys always end up heart broken by lies and deception so eventually we just give up on finding love and go hardcore into some hobby or work (edited)

Mike

4mo

INTJ

Gemini

Oh, we are here. We just met the wrongs like yall did. Or the right ones just bad timing on account to immaturity, due to growing into the proper man you need for your space. Vice-versa. Make sence?

Chris

4mo

ENFJ

Pisces

Oh you ain’t fooling me Malorie. I see that snow on the ground behind you. I raise my hand saying “loyal man here🙋🏻‍♂️and you say “great! prove your loyalty to me by shoveling my driveway please” I’m on to you 🤨

Marie

4mo

INFJ

Taurus

There are good men still out there! I know be cause I married one. Unfortunately, he passed....

Brian

4mo

INFJ

Scorpio

The "good guys" you're trying to refer to rarely ever get noticed and are even less taken seriously. Many "good guys" don't even try online dating because its very well known that its an empty experience at best and heartbreaking experience at worst. It's genuinely depressing and its hard to keep bringing your own A game when you're constantly treated like dirt.

David W

4mo

INFJ

Sagittarius

Recovering over being used and played with. Kind of full of myself to say I'm a good guy. But I like to believe I am. Time after time or putting myself out there to be ignored or just asked for money hurts. It's to the point I just don't know what to do anymore or who to ever believe

Vinny

4mo

ENFP

Leo

We're out here, We're just working and going to therapy 😂

4mo

INTP

Libra

We've been here waiting, It's just this world has not given hope to guys like us anymore. Cuz of everything that has happened, we normally choose a life of solitude a life of confinement or even a life of self-development cuz nobody wanted to choose us even from the beginning what life happens and they decide to leave over trivial situations. But we are not gone. We've just decided to do something else until the time comes that we try or do again

Adelé

4mo

INTJ

Leo

No because who leads someone one for 3 months making them believe they love them and then leaves after promising a relationship to go be with more women

Zach Jackson

4mo

INTJ

Sagittarius

"All the good guys are taken." -> "Only the taken guys are good." This unfortunate bias feeds the cheating culture. SMH Don't focus just on the guy who immediately catches your eye. Your eyes are not the only ones on him, and he will be tempted to cheat. Give some thought to the purpose of dating; making personal connections. Date more guys casually, and see if their personality starts to grow on you. Even if you don't feel a spark, some of them might become friends worth keeping.

mike

4mo

INTJ

Cancer

We’re here. Just nobody wants the good guy. Nice guys finish last. Plus society is too busy swiping left because they don’t like one specific thing on your profile. The perfect guy checklist standard must all be met.

Ami

4mo

ISTP

Aquarius

Technically speaking, there are no good guys or bad guys; there's only good and bad actions. What may seem bad from your POV, others may look at it as good. A guy who had cheated multiple times when he was dating his ex-girlfriend, may remain loyal to you in relationship. Stop looking for the good ones. Love the person to your fullest potential. If that doesn't make him loyal to you, nothing else will.

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I'd say the good guys are still out there, the not so good ones are just the loudest, unfortunately.

They exist. They are also probably just as frustrated and burned out as you are with the dating world. Hope you find a worthwhile person!

Maybe don't filter your matches by pseudoscientific mbti types.

Hidden away in our ugly bodies. Sorry.

Oh, they're out there... We just have to ask ourselves, how are WE limiting ourselves? What qualities do we want in a man that we lack, or are working towards? Look for a partner who can support you wholeheartedly because you accept the entirety of you-- not for someone who can be your other half.

We are a dying breed. Societies hookup culture has ruined both sides of the aisle.

You swiped them left or you didnt swipe me right yet

I wonder how many DM’s she got after posting this lol

I feel the same way about women. I think they're out there-- we just have to find each other

Good guys are married . Great guys are heartbroken.

You're just giving the wrong men a chance

I can say I'm one of them but I haven't got any likes or messages idk if it's me or idk..🫤

oh if you were a lesbian....🌷

Ironically I have the same issue and belief for women. No luck in my country it seems.

I agree with Razan, I think that good guys don't expose themselves a lot because they want to know the person first and then they will decide if they want just a friendship or a romantic relationship

I would ask the same question. About women. It's crazy out there now.

We are around we are just extremely picky on who we are spending our time with and why. I’ve found this creates a lot of issues, but it protects my peace. The good ones are just harder to find.

I feel the same way as a fellow ENFP. But also like I may be a tad picky lol 😂

Authentic, honest and loyal? We're ulgy or staying away or trying to heal because we were loyal when our partner wasn't. But I hope you find what you're looking for.

Authentic, honest, loyal partners (men and women, both) have been beaten down by a society that values hedonistic pursuits above all else. They exist, but they're difficult to find on purpose.

Good guys always get passed for the bad boys and end up being friend zoned. Like I get it we are the best of friends. But sometimes we want more than that especially if we connect on so much more

Rare and hard to find nowadays. Most of us tend to stay hidden so we don't get hurt. Just my opinion on that one.

I mean good guys are everywhere it's just the bad ones are more noticeable since people usually remember bad experiences more than good ones

We good guys always end up heart broken by lies and deception so eventually we just give up on finding love and go hardcore into some hobby or work (edited)

Oh, we are here. We just met the wrongs like yall did. Or the right ones just bad timing on account to immaturity, due to growing into the proper man you need for your space. Vice-versa. Make sence?

Oh you ain’t fooling me Malorie. I see that snow on the ground behind you. I raise my hand saying “loyal man here🙋🏻‍♂️and you say “great! prove your loyalty to me by shoveling my driveway please” I’m on to you 🤨

There are good men still out there! I know be cause I married one. Unfortunately, he passed....

Recovering over being used and played with. Kind of full of myself to say I'm a good guy. But I like to believe I am. Time after time or putting myself out there to be ignored or just asked for money hurts. It's to the point I just don't know what to do anymore or who to ever believe

We're out here, We're just working and going to therapy 😂

No because who leads someone one for 3 months making them believe they love them and then leaves after promising a relationship to go be with more women

We’re here. Just nobody wants the good guy. Nice guys finish last. Plus society is too busy swiping left because they don’t like one specific thing on your profile. The perfect guy checklist standard must all be met.

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