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Posted May 20, 2023

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HS loverboy

If you asked me 10 years ago what love is, i would have given you the blue pill answer. The whole disney fairy tale prom king/queen first love at 18. 10 years later, i realized alot of things are just bullsh*t. Make it look good on the outside but the inside its a mess. I guess the upside if you don’t qualify for relationships these days you find relief from the social pressure of pursuing and providing. everything becomes platonic, I focus on myself much more. Of course you can come across and attract a potiental mate but i realize most people are just out for themselves and selfish. Meh, now 10 years later id rather be alone then be taken for granted or in a relationship thats not respected. -rant

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Snags

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I'd rather be in a wonderful, loving, supportive, long term relationship built on honesty, understanding and respect, than be alone.

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To believe and have a narrow vision of love is futile. There’s highs and lows. Unfortunately most people don’t grasp this concept until after its over. Just a thought

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Snags

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@Leo I don't understand what you mean. Is that intended to be a response to what I said?

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@Snags yes.

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@Leo so, what were you trying to say then? "Yes" doesn't exactly make your comment make any more sense.

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@Snags i already explained. If you don’t understand, i stand corrected. Just re-read the comment. If not just ignore it and move on with your day thanks

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@Leo you did not explain, you said "yes," that's not an explanation of how what you said is related or a response to what I said. Do you mean to say that my belief and "vision" based on my experience is fake? That I can't understand the concept of "not everything is rainbows and sunshine and 100% happiness constantly," until I'm divorced? Because, wonderful, loving, supportive long term relationships built on honesty, understanding, and respect, are absolutely real. Being in that relationship doesn't mean no bad days. You can still have arguments and "ups and downs," in a good relation, you communicate and work together to solve concerns. That's kinda the whole point. 13 years and going strong with my love. I don't have a "narrow vision of love," I literally just described, as condensed as I could, my marriage.

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@Snags can i ask you a question? Are you in a relationship with a man or woman. It makes a big difference. Your point of view seems like “tunnel vision” i dont expect you to understand where im coming from because you’re not a man. Debating with me about this is pointless. If you’re in a relationship with another women there is technically no biological differences you understand each other. I suppose that just goes to show you how narrow minded people can be of the opposite gender. Plus im not here to debate with you, cause i can careless about a stranger on the internet. When you become a man maybe you’ll understand until then its just talk.

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