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Kenny

3 days ago

ESFJ
Taurus
Should men be expected to pay on the first date?

Honestly I don't think women should expect ANYTHING from men on the first date and vice versa. However, I always make an effort to pay on the first date as a courtesy and to let the the girl know that I really like them.

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Dan

3 days ago

ISFJ
Taurus

3w4

3

4

Why would you buy anything on your first date. A nice stroll on beach should be you first date

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Xavier

3 days ago

ENTP
Cancer

5w6

5

6

I have to agree, either do a coffee date or find something free to do like a museum with free admission, a park, a beach or outside event. A first date should be for you to see if she is even worth your time.

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Dan

3 days ago

ISFJ
Taurus

3w4

3

4

Amen xavier...

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Kenny

3 days ago

ESFJ
Taurus

I can see your point. But what if you really wanted to try a restaurant and she was also super down? Why not just eat at that restaurant with the girl and test the waters there.

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Dan

3 days ago

ISFJ
Taurus

3w4

3

4

Why would you do that with a date.... take a friend or go own your own

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Xavier

3 days ago

ENTP
Cancer

5w6

5

6

I love my parents and I only occasionally take them out to eat. You just met this person and youre ready to throw money down on them. You dont need to impress her. You need to be willing to take the chance of not paying so you can see what type of person you are really dealing with. If she doesn't want to chill with you for free then she is not for you. She needs to earn that from you. What does it say to her that you are willing to give somebody something for them absolutely doing nothing for you

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Christy

3 days ago

INTJ
Leo

I love it when men pay on the first day I think it's cute. It shows that they're actually interested and not just trying to get a booty call 😂. Plus I'm always paying for everybody else so it always feels good to have somebody finally pay for me.

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제시카

3 days ago

ENTP
Capricorn

4w5

4

5

Nobody should be expected to pay. It should depend on the financial status of the individuals involved. Whoever can afford it, can pay for it. If they can both afford it, they can both pay or take turns paying.

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Matthew

2 days ago

INFP
Aquarius

I think the first date should be either really cheap or free. I would like to wait until I know she's interested for sure and not just expecting a free meal.

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