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Valencia

Valencia

9mo

INTJ

Leo

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The best kind of connections happen naturally

Often time we try to force a connection with someone because we find them physically attractive or something else on the surface level. However this type of forced connection would never last. It takes two to tango and the feelings must be mutual in order for a genuine connection to be formed. And the part people overlook the most, is that a lot of pragmatic aspects of life could be a huge factor in influencing whether or not the connection is made, such as personality compatibility, values, culture, shared dreams and goals, finances (with men it signifies ambition and competence) and health. Don’t force connections. Put effort but let it happen naturally.

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Andrei

Andrei

9mo

INFP

Taurus

8
7

Of course, because there is a common interest for that connection. You can think of how annoying are the people who are trying to connect with you, but you don't want. I learned it's important to not expect anything from anyone or any interaction. Expectation = frustration, sadness, disconnection

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Samuel Azariah

Samuel Azariah

9mo

INFJ

Aries

So true

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Jen

Jen

9mo

ISFJ

Libra

1
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Smart young lady!!!!

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AJ

AJ

9mo

INFP

Libra

I agree with your statement. A connection should be formed organically. At the same time, I believe to aware and recognizing the nonverbal cues and understanding why those feelings form. Share what you feeling.

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Majid

Majid

9mo

ENFP

Capricorn

6
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Isn't that the truth! Preach!

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Albert

Albert

9mo

INFJ

Scorpio

2
3

I'm not sure if this is true? Honestly arraigned marriages have worked in other cultures for centuries. Just because something is forced doesn't necessarily make it any less valid or meaningful. I think also that culture plays a far larger role in it as well, communalistic vs individualistic. Western culture is highly individualistic and with the advent of online dating (as well as a disposable economy mindset) we're left in a limbo high expectations with little to no payout.

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