Carla

Posted Saturday, March 12, 2022

1y

INFJ
Gemini

1w2

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There’s something that can’t be forced: chemistry. Often times, though, people value looks over the chemistry they feel with a person.

There’s something <a href="/database/profile/70810/that-personality-type" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">that</a> can’t be forced: <a href="/u/chemistry" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">chemistry</a>. Often times, <a href="/u/though" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">though</a>, <a href="/u/people" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">people</a> <a href="/u/value" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">value</a> <a href="/u/looks" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">looks</a> <a href="/database/profile/86850/over-personality-type" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">over</a> the chemistry they <a href="/u/feel" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">feel</a> with <a href="/database/profile/41567/a-personality-type" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">a</a> <a href="/u/person" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">person</a>.

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Zackery Sprague

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I prefer intellectual conversations. That's what gets me attracted to the other. Or debates if that matters.

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Ron

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Good man.

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Zackery Sprague

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@Ron Do you and I think alike? 🧐 Haha

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Ron

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@Zackery Sprague I hope so. Makes things easier. 🤣

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Zackery Sprague

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@Ron Lol!

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Carla

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🙌🏻 that’s right

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Zackery Sprague

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Carla

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@Zackery Sprague Haha

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Jen

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Call me weird but seemingly attractive people can just forever look ugly after you learn of huge personality flaws. And seemingly ordinary people appear amazingly attractive when their personality (and the chemistry) is wonderful.

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Dakota

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I figured looks were also associated with chemistry

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Carla

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Sure looks can make you feel infatuation or shallow intrigue. However, that aspect is just that, shallow. The most important thing is the connection felt internally.

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Dakota

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@Carla Well if I'm being honest looks play a large part in any attraction. The next most important feature would be competency and then money. Chemistry seems to play a rather limited role overall, and seems to be a result of the previous three. I could be wrong, but I base this off what all my female cousins say they look for in a man. I suppose they could be shallow, but I think they are just being honest.

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Carla

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@Dakota It’s shallow to care about looks.

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Dakota

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@Carla Maybe, but I assume even if it is shallow that is how the majority of people operate. Do you disagree? Or do you think that it's true and the majority of people are shallow?

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Carla

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@Dakota Yes, most people are shallow. I don’t place value on someone for their looks to any degree.

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Tania

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I hate the concept of "Chemistry". Almost everyone that I dated used it as an excuse to leave and never talk to me again instead of stating the actual reasons. It made me feel horrible. That's also why I no longer date anymore😅.

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Luis

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Virgo

That's why I'm bi, so I can switch teams^_^ so I feel that.

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Carla

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💀💀💀

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Ron

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Which is of course a silly thing to do. Leads to the whole pedestal/out of your league nonsense. Understanding is what's important. Talk to everyone you can. You might be surprised how often other things fill in the blanks and give you a whole person.

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Jon Huff

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Pisces

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I won't lie, this is something I have problems over. I'm constantly asking myself if I'm really attracted to this person and what about her is attractive. Me I'm trying to find that chemistry but I have no real luck. I'm too shy of a man( too tramtic of a past) to approach anyone. Yes some of it is based on looks, but what about attitude and more.

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Zackery Sprague

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ENTJ
Aquarius

6w7

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I choose.... Chemistry!

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