Matt

1mo

ENTJ
Pisces

2w1

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Relationship

Don't you just hate when ur in a relationship you guys broke up then next day she tells everybody that your the problem that it happen because there wasn't enough to do. Yet you feel its completely opposite where you felt the reason you broke up was bc you had suspicions she was talking to someone else and moving on super fast after break up your like... Was she holding back or was she jusy been lying this whole time? Was like ok we break up its gonna be fine things will get situated and suddenly you read posts like im so happy im starting over. Its like your the most heart broken and other person is like omfg im single again PARTY!! Am i only 1 that recently been in this scenario broke up 3 days ago would think she took it hard and yet its opposite this coming from someone who bought her things and made her the happiest yet most loved person in the world.

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IVY ROSE

1mo

ENFJ
Libra

6w5

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Sorry! some people do not know how to deal with situations without telling the whole world when really they should be focusing on themselves and healing. It's immature. I mean unless you did something physical.or crazy which is normally not the case. Also, maybe she thought you'd trash her name and wanted to have the story out there first. Which makes her look bad lol

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Matt

1mo

ENTJ
Pisces

2w1

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Wouldnt say response is helpful. But seems it. Lets see never anything physical because thats just wrong... Was never any crazy or anything never trashed her name or anything whatsoever. Everyday was always the same whether her honesty was fake or just didnt want to admit or stand up and tell me what was really wrong 8 months healthy best relationship ever until december hit and suddenly went from wanting to do things to end up wanting nothing to do with me my time off from working was always wasted to be with her yet she never came to me or came over. People told me my dog was reason she never came over was a excuse to be here. I was given nothing but praise whole family loved me her brother treated me exactly like a brother even wanted me to marry her. Like i said december hit. Didnt want to go out to dinner no more.. No more dave n busters or anything i mostly paid for dinners and everything i do.. We had things not in common but it was never a reason not to be together. Recently kept throwing red flags... October told me she block her ex... Went to dinner and i ask her if she knew anyone that needed a gaming controller... She said she knew someone and was her ex. We never suspected cheating bc i worked almost everyday when i go to work she just got off so it was no telling what she done while i worked she could tell me shes doing this do something else or she would not say anything all day whatsoever so dont know

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IVY ROSE

1mo

ENFJ
Libra

6w5

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@Matt no I'm not saying you were physical? I was saying that's the only time I feel someone should be seeking outside support. Not in a breakup. I was also saying it isn't your fault...

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Matt

1mo

ENTJ
Pisces

2w1

2

1

All i could think of was she was too scared to be honest with how she feel end up breaking up end up caring less if i was heartbroken sad and sorts is what it is

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Matt

1mo

ENTJ
Pisces

2w1

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@IVY ROSE oh gotcha.

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IVY ROSE

1mo

ENFJ
Libra

6w5

6

5

@Matt I think when we like someone sometimes we may want the outcome of something to work that we miss clear signs. Alternatively, what you're saying is absolutely plausible. Perhaps she did not know how to express her disinterest or maybe she even did she just chose not too. Dating can be complicated.

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Matt

1mo

ENTJ
Pisces

2w1

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@IVY ROSE i sorta feel you on that that was why i wanted to give her time to think about it then jumping gun being so rash over it i wouldve understand how she truly feel but instead.. Going to work my performance has dropped nearly cried few times bc of the heart break meanwhile all cheerful. Why say i make u the happiest in the world then make me seem like im the worlds crappiest yet worst BF in the world?

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Julius

1mo

INTJ
Aries

5w6

5

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Nah, I don't have relationships. 🤷‍♂️

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