Ivory

Posted Friday, April 8, 2022

1y

INFJ
Libra

What do you expect from your next relationship?

Like what are some things you want from a potential partner? What are somethings you desire from your next relationship. Things that you aren't going to tolerate. Things you demand (yes you can demand certain things). What are ultimate deal breakers?

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Alex

1y

ENFJ
Pisces

Just to vent a little on this topic 😂 I used to have some hardcore expectations and deal breakers. Wouldn't step near anyone who smoked or drank, or had any kind of baggage tied to them. I no longer feel that kind of way because it doesn't always define a person for who they are. But in my current relationship, I've learned that I can't stand many little things. The person I'm with needs to have a solid communication throughout the day. I can't tolerate having to pull the weight of an entire other adult, they have to be self sufficient and responsible as well as mature. Being able to have the harder conversations without feeling defensive or accused and jumping to conclusions. Definitely respecting one another and our boundaries is a demand, and finally making sure they only have eyes for you and no other person, picture, or thing as far as attraction goes.

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Ivory

1y

INFJ
Libra

See, I was the opposite I used to just accept people for who they are and that left me being unfulfilled because the people I've been involved with had no drive. The self sufficient and mature part you mentioned is 100%

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Xander

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ENTP
Scorpio

I think that there should always be some time set aside to be together everyday Even if it's virtual cause long distance. All of my relationships eventually turned long distance and they all just kindof faded out cause I was too afraid to ask for more time with the person. I couldnt help but think that they'd just be busy but what I didn't realize is that I was worring so much about stressing my partner out and not enough about my own needs in the relationship that it always just kindof faded away until you couldn't call it a relationship anymore. In my next relationship I'm definitely gonna be more open with my needs and just honestly work communicating better

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