Yeah, but I also looked at my failures and tried to goallCSI on them, what did they do, what did I do etc… trying to be objective (which is hard / bordering on impossible;p) and try to avoid thatagain. It’s scaryashell, and I may crash and burn again, but I might not? 🤷
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AJ
3mo
INFP
Pisces
7w8
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I'm a Hella overthinker myself. I often get stuck in the what ifs. What should have been what could have been and what might have been.
But I'm also a dreamer constantly imagining my perfect mate. Someonewho likes my interests but also has interests of his own. Someone who could be my partner in the variousactivities I enjoy but can also introduce me to newthings.... maybe I spend too muchtime in my own fantasy fanning the flames of a fictitious romance
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Dev
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INTP
Gemini
6w7
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I was for a long time. This time I just told myself, "Doesn't matterif they ghost. Youfeltgood for a while, and you're no worse off now than before."
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Posted Friday, August 18, 2023
3mo
7w8
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Lonely, longing but leary
Is anyone else seriously lonely and longing for a mate but also too leary from passed failures to really put yourself out there?
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6w7
6
7
I am alone, but not really lonely. Seems less lonely to be by myself than feeling alone in company
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3mo
6w5
6
5
Yeah, but I also looked at my failures and tried to go all CSI on them, what did they do, what did I do etc… trying to be objective (which is hard / bordering on impossible;p) and try to avoid that again. It’s scary as hell, and I may crash and burn again, but I might not? 🤷
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3mo
7w8
7
8
I'm a Hella over thinker myself. I often get stuck in the what ifs. What should have been what could have been and what might have been. But I'm also a dreamer constantly imagining my perfect mate. Someone who likes my interests but also has interests of his own. Someone who could be my partner in the various activities I enjoy but can also introduce me to new things.... maybe I spend too much time in my own fantasy fanning the flames of a fictitious romance
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3mo
6w7
6
7
I was for a long time. This time I just told myself, "Doesn't matter if they ghost. You felt good for a while, and you're no worse off now than before."
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3mo
6w7
6
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Yep fatigued, even just friendships
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3mo
1w9
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Yup.
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