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Geoffrey

13 days ago

ENTJ
Taurus

1w9

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I've given up on dating.
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Not because I lack confidence. Not because I think there's no one out there for me. And certainly not because I think I'll never find love. No, I've decided that I don't want to date right now because I don't want to fall into the trap of needing someone else to be happy. I want to continue to work on myself, heal all of my wounds, work through my past traumas, and be the best version of myself that I can be before I find someone else. Not just for myself, but also so that I won't be bringing any unwanted baggage into future relationships. I've always believed that the best way to truly find someone who is compatable with you is to follow your own path and see who you meet along the way. And since that philosophy has never let me down, I shall continue to move foward on my own path. And if I die alone on that path, so be it. Better than being surrounded by people I hate. Honestly, I actually find it quite refreshing that I don't need to worry about dating right now. It's one less thing to worry about, and it really feels like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders, because now there's a whole set of expectations during my social interactions that I can completely forget about. It's quite liberating. For anyone out there suffering from unresolved issues and traumas, I implore you all to dig deep and work on yourselves before pursuing new relationships. Not just for your sake, but for that of your partner as well. Self-love, respect and improvement will completely transform you from the inside and out. Trust me, I say that from experience. Having said that, I can say quite confidently that I will find someone someday... But now is not the time for that.

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𝓓𝓪𝓻𝓮𝓸𝓷𝓽𝓪𝓮

13 days ago

ENTJ
Cancer

8w7

8

7

There you go. This is my exact mindset on dating. It's nice but I have more important things to consider before jumping back into it again.

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Geoffrey

13 days ago

ENTJ
Taurus

1w9

1

9

This. ☝️

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Josh

13 days ago

INFP
Taurus

6w7

6

7

Damn Sir I started reading this because my favorite thing in the app is giving advice and support. You hit the nail on the head! I guess sometimes you just need to see it in black and white.

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Geoffrey

13 days ago

ENTJ
Taurus

1w9

1

9

Thanks bro I appreciate it!

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Josh

13 days ago

INFP
Taurus

6w7

6

7

Bro glad you're at such a healthy spot!

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Geoffrey

13 days ago

ENTJ
Taurus

1w9

1

9

Believe me, I still have work to do! But I appreciate the kind words regardless. 😊

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Drew

12 days ago

INFP
Leo

5w6

5

6

I found that giving up on humanity was easier lol

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Geoffrey

12 days ago

ENTJ
Taurus

1w9

1

9

That works too 😂

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Alex

12 days ago

INTP
Sagittarius

In a way yes and now but good luck man

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