Jammy

Posted Sunday, May 7, 2023

11mo

INFJ

Gemini

6

5

Time out for yourself..just do it! :)

"You can't force someone to change It has to start with them" This is so true No matter how I wish them well be compassionate and understanding I just have to let go of that thought :) If they want to grow and be a bigger and better person..They will step out of their comfort zone :) It's not my job to fix people being kind and caring doesn't mean I have to get myself into troubles and put up with their toxicities I still am a person who has to walk on my path, get through my own struggles, and keep pushing through to be better as well I can share my pov, my experiences, anything I think that can help others so, they don't have to start from 0 like I did at first But, if they can't fight their way out of those unhealthy and toxic behaviors + traps I'm not gonna repeat myself twice don't expect me to sympathise and be like momma for you brats 😏 No, I'm not dat typa person I give you tough love (If you think about what I've already told you) 😈 Alone time for self-reflection is necessary How can you tune in with your inner wisdom when you're surrounded by lots of noise from the outside world? You have to find answers to your questions the solutions to your problems You can be your own best friend or worst enemy choose wisely :) Good luck for each individual's journey I'm always open to those who truly want to grow as a person 😊 But, I'm not for toxic, manipulative people and spoiled brats...think and do better for yourself 😈 [No, not talking about love as I'm single...just talking about people that crosses path with me in general I don't wanna be insensitive saying "What's so hard letting go of what no longer serves you? Be it self-destructive behaviors, self-sabotaged, your ex- etc. 😒 If I can do it... Y'all can do it too 😓" Hmm...Just a thought tho people are allowed to choose their paths even if it's not good for them but, I have no right to interfere just wish them well and hope they'll find their strength and love themselves enough to choose the new direction... It's easy to fall back into what you're familiar with but, it takes courage to break those patterns and go for what you truly deserve 😉 ] Apologize for any spelling or grammatical mistakes 🙏