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Posted Sunday, February 23, 2025

1mo

INFP

Cancer

For the guys... 🫶🏻🧍‍♂️

Why won't you approach a good-looking/ attractive woman in public that catched your eye? (Bar, club, restaurant, cafe, etc) It's because you men are shy? or she seems unapproachable/intimidating? or is fear of rejection? 🚨 NO JUDGMENT HERE, just genuinely curious about this. I wanna hear the boys, please be honest

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Gregolonious

1mo

INTJ

Aries

Because women have posted hundreds of thousands of videos saying to not approach them. 👁👄👁

Gabriel

1mo

INFJ

Aries

I'm generally trying not to bother people after hearing so many stories of harassment and unwanted approaches. Also painfully shy.

1mo

ENTJ

Virgo

I will if we make the right eye contact. If she is in her own world or acting like she doesn't want to be bothered, I'll leave her alone.

Chris

1mo

ISTJ

Gemini

Because we have been told you chose the bear and leave you alone and we are creepy etc etc

1mo

ISTJ

Scorpio

Fear of being screamed at or made to be a spectacle, or maced, or tazed...I mean - take your pick lol

Joshua

1mo

INFJ

Sagittarius

If she rejects me it'd be better off if I had never approached her. If she's intrepid, knows what she wants, and capable or achieving it then she'll approach me instead. All of that aside, there's one VERY good reason I won't approach her even if I do fancy her. In my mind is a vision of a woman I've seen. I cannot shake her from my heart. I know she exists. She's out there somewhere. I don't know where she is, however, I'm weighing everything on her either finding me or me finding her. Her features, her qualities, her character is as visible as the physical world before my very eyes.

Travis

1mo

INTP

Aquarius

Shy. Bad communication skills. Attractiveness does little to shift how unlikely I am to talk to someone in public. (edited)

Jaime

1mo

ISTJ

Gemini

I don't know if she is even single and also not trying to ruin someone else's day or interrupt them if they are have a good time with friends or family.

Cristian S

1mo

INTP

Gemini

Risk and reward don't match. Too high potential risk, low potential for reward (edited)

nobody

1mo

INFP

Leo

Girls scare me

SpikyOrion

1mo

INFJ

Virgo

I think this is an issue, you never know that person wants to be approached, and different people think different places arent meant for that... best course i see caffee's and restaurants go back to speed dating events 😂 Women tend to not really want to be approached, despite some desiring to find someone to spend time with because.muh have you seenthe state of the world? They are more mindfull about who they let in their life at the moment. Cant see your intentions even if they are genuince cuz there are some really good actors out there regardless of gender. People have gotten wayyy to creative But more of less people need to be straight forward and respectfull. If you see someone youd be interested into go and say that, if its a no then its a no and back off. That applies for everyone... and i odnt mean the "ayo supp baby girl u look hot i seen u cross the street" kidna approach.. im not joking, self experience. Stay safe out there (edited)

Willem

1mo

INTJ

Aries

I'm an extreme introvert, so I tend to try and stay away from people in public, I've been trying to break that cycle though. It's not easy talking to strangers, mainly most of them won't accept you or would want you to change, which is basically the same thing. And for an introvert such things are extremely difficult

Leeman

17d

INTP

Capricorn

Despite some of the comments here, I’ve approached women directly. I’ve never had an experience where they didn’t want to be approached. Then again, I’m also pretty damn perceptive. A lot of guys struggle with that. They either think any approach will work as long as they "just do something," or they read some blog that convinces them never to approach at all—like "women" are one hivemind-controlled monolith with a singular drone brain. Right. Because every woman on Earth held a meeting and voted on whether men should talk to them. 🙄 It’s all about reading the individual vibe. I don’t know why that’s so hard for so many men to grasp. Anyway, the real reason I don’t always go up to attractive women—even if their vibe is right—isn’t because of shyness. It’s usually because of: 1) Who’s around her. 2) Where I’m at and who I’m with. Example: I was in Hong Kong once. There was this very sweet-looking woman at the bar, stuck between three dudes she clearly had no interest in. She kept locking eyes with me across the room. After a few obvious glances, I walked over, moved between the three guys like they weren’t even there, ordered a whisky, and leaned into her. "Same for you?" I asked. Bartender handed us our drinks. I took her hand and led her back to my table. End of story. [sigh] What a time to be alive… When I was younger, and still gave a damn. 😏 These days? I could blame it on shyness, but that would mostly be a lie - an accidental one. Yeah, I’m shy, but that’s never stopped me before. It’s about my mood. And unfortunately, I’m grumpy as hell most of the time, so I don’t bother anymore. Look at my comment history. Don’t I sound like a total grumpy bastard? Bit of a jerk? 😉 Yeah. Pretty sure I’m a turn-off for most women. But hey—at least I’m self-aware. 😏

Brian

1mo

INFP

Scorpio

For what I know she's there just chilling or doing her own stuff, probably not wanting to be bothered; plus, I'm shy with first moves

𝕒𝕝𝕖𝕩

1mo

ISTJ

Gemini

I'm out of her league 😳

Gerardo

1mo

ENFP

Gemini

Shyness probably. To be honest, I usually don’t make a move unless I am sure they show similar interest

Grashopa

1mo

ISTJ

Cancer

A lifetime of rejection tends to beat you down to the point of not bothering anymore. *women would be welcome to approach me if the would like. That's has NEVER happened out in the world. (I have received a few first messages from women on apps over the past 5 years but typically it has been obvious that they didn't even read my profile since we are clearly not a match at all...) (edited)

Joost

1mo

ESTJ

Libra

Get where the others are coming from. Despite of that i do approach woman i like. But then its al about what you want and how sincere you are.

Big Will

20d

ESFJ

Leo

Honestly,men do like rejection! We have a hard enough just being men,on top of all the stereotypes that come with men,especially working men that the internet has ruined. When a working man enters a room, he may not be the most elegant, flashiest dresser, the best physique, and for that,we get brushed aside for the pretty boy and rarely get to show how kind and gentle we can be! So most of us that do not approach are kind and gentle but decide it may not be worth the rejection? Feel free to enlightening me on what u think?

Ariel

28d

INFP

Capricorn

In a different day and age, I might have. But nowadays? Seems like a risky proposition.

Thilak

22d

INFP

Sagittarius

All of the above

Neil

1mo

ISTJ

Libra

Because the world has changed and people think it's creepy. I have wanted to speak to girls I see out and about but you cannot approach a stranger because it's a red flag.

Ben

28d

ISTP

Aquarius

Been told to stay away, so away I stay.

Arturo

11d

INFP

Aquarius

Nowadays prejudice is a constant problem, specially if is interacting with woman.They build an intimidating phycological barrier that prevents anyone get into them, like for instance I tried to approach a girl yesterday to just ask for her friendship and ended up in disaster because she got afraid. Like I said in a previous comment: less restrictive and more flexible. We do not ask for an easy opening but a reasonable 50/50 interaction, the rest is up to each one of both parts. Bonus coment: The excuse of "I can't talk to you because I don't know you" blocks any possibility. NO ONE KNOWS 100% THE OTHER PERSON. You must give the chance to know each other in order to get along with someone.

19d

INTP

Libra

Because im fat ugly and broke. I'd just be wasting my time and hers

Loris

18d

ESFP

Taurus

Honestly? Mine is a mix of low self-esteem (I don't think others will like me) and fear of rejection.

Devon

18d

INTJ

Leo

Because women nowadays can be ruthless to men approaching them. If a guy isn't already a woman's type there's a high chance that the woman is gonna be brutal in their rejection simply because they can. Plus false accusations are a big fear. Me personally I don't wanna feel like I'm bothering someone with my weirdness. (edited)

Jim

18d

ESTP

Scorpio

The law and pepper spray

Alex

16d

ENTJ

Capricorn

I would definitely approach someone that I feel it's approachable and I'm interested to. But most of the women nowadays feel it's socially unacceptable to be approached and don't like it being rude or giving an awkward reaction

Matt

20d

ISTJ

Virgo

In this day an age it's considered "creepy"🙄. Add in the fact that if he's not 6' tall(bare minimum), six figure income, own his own place, etc., etc. that he's not worth their time, at that point I've already seen her for what she is an I've got no real use for her.

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19d

ISTP

Pisces

Honestly, a lot of guys feel shy or intimidated. It's tough to put yourself out there, especially with someone who looks great!

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