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Isabel

14 days ago

INTJ
Capricorn

1w9

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Conversation starters

Are you usually the one who starts conversations here or wait till someone messages you first?

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Quentin

13 days ago

INTJ
Leo

I start the conversation then get left on seen 😅 like why even match?

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Jordan

14 days ago

ESTP
Leo

8w7

8

7

I usually start them because most females don't like messaging first for whatever reason

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Isabel

14 days ago

INTJ
Capricorn

1w9

1

9

I can't speak for other girls but for me it's an introvert thing honestly. Sometimes I would try to start a conversation but it's only if I think there's something I can actually talk to them about

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cheesebun

14 days ago

INFJ
Pisces

2w1

2

1

depends how comfortable i am with the individual

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Shuvro

13 days ago

INTJ
Capricorn

7w8

7

8

Wait

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Joshua

14 days ago

INTP
Gemini

2w1

2

1

If we connect, then I'll message 1st (if they haven't already).

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Brenden Walden

13 days ago

ENTP
Scorpio

I start it but I feel like my texting skills are dry asf if it's someone I'm interested in because I'll get nervous asf hoping I don't say the wrong thing over text as a first impression. If I just play it off in my mind that I'm not pursuing them I have a much easier time with humor, sarcasm, and general flow of a conversation.

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James

14 days ago

INTP
Cancer

I start the conversation but it's hard for me because of my shyness so I usually screw it up and get ghosted because I'm awkward asf😭⛈️

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Matt

13 days ago

ENFJ
Virgo

1w9

1

9

I nearly always start the conversation. I don't find it good or had. The only time I start wondering if I am burning both side's time is if the conversations quality is quite low--I don't take it personally if so, it's just a fact of life

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Onda

14 days ago

INTJ
Taurus

5w6

5

6

before sending a private message I've already talked to that another person in public, then If they prefer to chat in private We'll go there. but I don't send messages to people that I haven't chat with

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Jay

13 days ago

INFP
Libra

7w6

7

6

Little Bit Both

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제시카

14 days ago

ENTP
Capricorn

4w5

4

5

Depends on my mood and how cool the person seems

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Owen

13 days ago

INFP
Libra

Introvert here🙋🏻‍♂️ i never start conversations😅

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Pratik

13 days ago

ENFP
Pisces

9w1

9

1

As Loki said, "A bit of both"

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Jenna

13 days ago

INFP
Aquarius

2w1

2

1

I'll typically wait unless I saw something on their profile I want to talk about. My typical ice breaker is "DO you have any pets?" Because who doesn't love to finally show off all those cute photos on their phone

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